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Find Courage to Build the Network You Need

The skills are the same in the boardroom and in the sandbox

by Jeanne  |  708 views  |  3 comments  |        Rate this now! 

It turned out that one of the other moms was a scuba diver, a sport our family enjoys. Generous and warm, she became one of my first “mom” friends. That boosted my confidence -- maybe I could do this. Gradually, as I grew to know these wonderful women, the conversations grew warmer and the friendships blossomed.

The result? My daughter now enjoys a plethora of play dates and birthday parties. She is fully clothed, in part due to wonderful hand-me-downs that we receive from other moms -- gifts that we, in turn, share with our friends. When a meeting runs late or a client needs help unexpectedly, I have a ready supply of friends, in addition to my family, on whom I can rely. More importantly, my mom friends, like my daughter, enrich my life much more than I could ever have imagined.

The take-home message? We can all build the network we need. The first step is to assess where the strengths, and the gaps, in your current network lie. Then, whether your network needs a better personal sector, as mine did, or the professional side needs a jump start, you craft what you need.

Build a network for what you do and who you are.

About the Author

Jeanne Hurlbert is a networking coach who heads optinetresources.com, an LSU faculty member, and a mom who helps other working moms build the network that will take them to the top and help them survive the ride.

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  • Jeanne,
    It is nice to hear your honesty! Yes any new environment seems to bring with it a certain amount of fear. That first step and the second can began to boost the confidence to continue! Thanks again~Cheryl

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by RecoveryCoach on 4th January 2008

  • Thanks for this. It's good to know that others are intimidated by building networks -- even social networking professionals! I've been there with the mommy network and am happy to say that I've finally got one of my own too. Now I'm considering a career change for the first time in a decade and need to start building another network for this purpose. Thanks for the inspiration!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Amy@UWM on 4th January 2008

  • OH how i needed to read this! i keep reading how everyone says to 'build a network' but no ever says HOW or what it feels like and if it's hard or not! thank you for saying yes, it's not easy, but it gets easier and it's worth it :) i think this article is applicable to ANY networking building need!! thank you so much!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Kate on 2nd January 2008

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