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Finding Balance Can Be a Job All Its Own

Here are my multitasking mom tips for getting it done!

by Robin Gorman Newman  |  573 views  |  1 comment  |        Rate this now! 

4.) Take care. If you’re like me, you have moments when you wish you could clone yourself. But, since I am only one person, I need to take care of my body and soul. I go to the gym (not as often as I’d like, but at least I’m there), try to spend time with friends, get occasional reflexology massages (my favorite), indulge the bargain shopper in me with jaunts to TJ Maxx. We have to carve out the time and allow ourselves to find happiness. We deserve it. Discover what gives you pleasure, and work it in to your routine.
5.) Make a connection. I am a people person and, as such, working from home is not easy for me. I bought a laptop and will sometimes write at the local library, but it’s not enough. I crave camaraderie. So, eight years ago I launched a networking group for enterprising women in New York and,most recently, co-founded Motherhood Later ... Than Sooner, and on- and off-line resource/community for moms age 35 and older. It proved to be so helpful that, today, I have genuine mom friends because of it, and our children are growing up together. So, don’t isolate yourself. It’s not always easy to get out of the house without a specific agenda, so look for groups in your local community to join. Take a class. Frequent a library or coffee shop. Find a destination, and make it your place. trike up a conversation. Meeting new people keeps life interesting, and I’ve heard that people with good friends live longer.

 

About the Author

co-founder, www.MotherhoodLater.com On & offline community/resource for 35+ moms of young children. Author, How to Marry a Mensch. Founder, www.LoveCoach.com -- "Strategic Socializing for Singles"

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  • Thanks for the tips! I love to read advice in list form.
    I am really working on #1. I have a hard time focusing.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by monawea on 6th February 2008

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