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Here’s the Real Barrier to Your Career Happiness

Heed the experts' advice; it really does apply to you

by Penelope Trunk  |  2293 views  |  2 comments  |        Rate this now! 

This is where Daniel Gilbert’s research becomes important. He is a psychology professor at Harvard who studies happiness and he’s noticed that no one takes the advice that research supports. He found that the reason people do not take steps that will make them happy is that they think they do not fit the mold. But he is adamant that people are not exceptional. When it comes to research about how to find happiness, humans are basically the same.

First, it’s a logical impossibility that most people are the exception to the rule, yet most people believe they are. Ninety percent of drivers think they are better than average. Most football players think they are better than average. Most people believe they are worse at juggling than the average person. Statistically speaking, almost all of these people have to be wrong.

Our perception of peoples’ differences is exaggerated because we spend our lives finding differences between people to choose teachers, band mates, and spouses. Gilbert recommends you think of grapes: “If you spend seven years studying the differences between grapes, no two will look the same to you, but really a grape is a grape.”

So, the truth is, the odds are overwhelming that you are average, and the things that set you apart are negligible when it comes to research about career happiness. So start running your life according to what people have already discovered works for the average person. Otherwise, the real barrier to your career happiness is you.

About the Author

Penelope Trunk is a blogger and author of Brazen Careerist. To read her blog, please go to www.penelopetrunk.com

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