One final thought. I want to reiterate that rocking your baby, using a pacifier, nursing or drinking a bottle before bed, etc. are not bad things to do. If you don't mind rocking your baby for 10 minutes and (s)he falls asleep, you transfer him/her to his/her bed (or take him/her to bed with you) and (s)he sleeps all night, then there is no problem. It's only when you can't keep up with the that it becomes a problem. Keep in mind that your sleep fragmentation that makes you exhausted is no better for your baby than it is for you. If you are cranky, don't you think (s)he will be too over time? I would have LOVED to rock my son to sleep every night and boy did I try over and over (unintentionally -- just in my nature). We slipped back into bad habits more times than I wanted to count, but it just became a hitch for him EVERY time. In the end, I was able to continue to nurse him to sleep once he learned the necessary skills to go BACK to sleep throughout the rest of the night. With opportunity and practice we can all learn a new way to sleep, even without a pillow! Well-rested babies make happy babies and well-rested parents make happy parents and happy parents make better parents!