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Or, How I Met My Daughters

by Kimberly  |  1439 views  |  3 comments  |        Rate this now! 

Another thing that's different--for me anyway--is that the rejection of your child stings less the second time around. I'm not quite sure why that is, other than the fact that after five years it seemed perfectly normal and reasonable that I would have that baby on my own. And if I'm being truly honest, I'll admit that by this time, I preferred things that way for a variety of reasons and was a little relieved when The Pirate, as I affectionately call this man, chose not to be a part of the picture.

So, yes, it is funny how life throws birth control at us. But it's downright hilarious when it turns out to be a curve ball that sneaks its way over the plate. That's why, even though I consider myself to have a pretty healthy sense of humour, I'm not ready to commit to Mirena just yet. The Zen Baby has an imaginary baby sister, you see.

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Kimberly is a writer, teacher, and solo mom to the 8 year old Diva Girl and 3 year old Zen Baby. You can find her at www.parentingwithoutalicense.com

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  • I found you here from your blog, which I love, being a solo mom myself. No father in the picture and I prefer it that way. It still shocks me when people make rude comments about how I "managed to get pregnant". Still, I wouldn't trade my life now for anything. Thanks for good read! Looking forward to more...

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Anna on 10th September 2007

  • Kimberly,

    So glad to see you here! I love this story and your decisions. I, too, know so well the curve ball of birth control. It's a hectic game full of daily drama, but one I relish.

    You are a rock star solo mom and Diva and Zen are blessed to have you!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Heather C. on 10th September 2007

  • Well I say congrats on being a mom anyways! I'm sure there are lots of women out there that share your story. My sister-in-law got pregnant after the first few dates with her man so there was a good bit of animosity towards the situation. I was there for her when others turned their back on her so I sort of understand how people get when this kind of thing happens. The guy chose to stay with her, unfortunately, and 4 years later she's in an abusive relationship too afraid to leave. It's probably best that those men chose not to stay with you, not saying that they might've been abusive too, but you're probably happier with just two beautiful little girls rather than dealing with the drama they might've brought. Thanks for sharing your story!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Marcia on 10th September 2007

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