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8.) Communicate. How to communicate effectively with friends and teachers is a crucial skill for kids, but it’s one that does not always come naturally, so it must be learned. Some learn this skill right away, but for many children, it needs to be practiced. Obviously, yelling is definitely not the most effective way of communicating. If your child is a yeller (or if you are!) steps need to be taken so that they are able to get the most out of their education. Help your child understand that by listening, thinking about what a persons says, and responding appropriately, they are more likely to be included in games and activities. It is important not just for the teacher/student relationship, but also for their friendships with other children.

9.) Talk about school. Teachers know which children have been talking about school with their parents. Talk to your child about who their teachers are; go to the school and meet the teachers before the school starts. (Trust me, we are there getting things ready.) Talk to your children about their fears and anxieties, what they are looking forward to, and what they enjoy. Talk to your child about their day, what they are studying and what subjects they like. Children who discuss school with their parents are the ones who bring their notes in, have the extra tissues in their backpack, are dressed appropriately for a field trip, and generally know what’s going on at school. (Also, don’t forget to tell them that school is a good thing.)

10.) Teach respect. This is the most important item on the list, so I’ve saved it for last. What does respect from kids look like? It means they look at the person who is talking and they listen until the speaker is finished. Respect means following the rules, listening to the teacher, doing what people ask, and treating others the way you want to be treated. (Oh, if I could play Aretha Franklin right now, I would!)

Incorporating the above skills will ensure that your child is prepared for school and help him or her succeed this year and more importantly, in life.

Oh, one other thing: Don’t forget to tell them to practice their math facts!