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The first thing you think is that he is having an affair . But some men who don't want to have sex could be suffering from ED (Erectile Dysfunction); some reports say that 30 percent of men have this condition. Depression can also play a big role in the lack of sex, because being depressed can lower mens libido.

Ladies, you are not going to like this, but 20 percent of men surveyed reported that the reason they do not have sex with their partner anymore is because they ARE having an affair. Forty-four percent say they are just too tired to have sex, and 68 percent say that their partner is not adventurous enough in the bedroom -- not enough passion.  Get rid of the bedroom boredom, explore more with sex and spice it up!

Not knowing why your spouse isn't interested in you anymore can be very frustrating. It can make you feel insecure, unattractive, unwanted, unloved and neglected. Twenty-eight percent of men say that they don't know why they are not interested in intercourse with their partner and 66 percent of women don't know why their men are not interested either. This shows lack of communication. How are you going to know what is wrong if you do not talk about it? Men are always portrayed to be the sex maniacs but, surprisingly, when it comes to lack of sex in a relationship now it may be because the men are not giving it up.

Weight gain can also be the issue; 38 percent of men say that they are not attracted to their spouse anymore because the spouse's weight was a problem. Twenty million couples are in a sexless relationship; if you want that passion back, discuss each other's issues, get to the source of the problem, and consider counseling. And remember: Having sex is not the only way of being intimate with your lover. Talking to each other and trying to figure out each other's needs can lead to a long, passionate relationship in and out of the bedroom.