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The real reason you dwell on your "what-ifs"

Five steps to help you get past the worry

by Sharon Melnick  |  629 views  |  0 comments  |        Rate this now! 

3.) They follow the motto: “Ready, fire, aim!” Its better to put out a first iteration and constantly improve it with feedback from the marketplace then to not leave the gate at all.

4.) They have a big picture and a longer term perspective. While appreciative of the small wins along the way, they don’t necessarily need to have the big hit results within the first few days or months -- they have self trust and faith in their long-term ability to succeed and a sense of deserving success.

5.) They use their obsessing about “what ifs” to put any helpful contingency plans into place, not to stop them in their tracks.

If you are holding yourself back from a career with more passion or a relationship with more happiness, you could have the core confidence necessary to go for it eight weeks from now.

“Her approach vacuumed my brain of a lot of cobwebs and I left full of new perspectives and tools for the life I never thought I could have... My kind of stuck was that I knew I had great talents that I could be using better, but I didn’t know how to do it. I was standing at the edge of the pool, thinking 'What is my talent, how do I do it, should I?' But now I’M IN! I’ve left my job and I’m Unleashed! I now have an utter confidence that I can pull anything off!” -- Lynette Benton

About the Author

Sharon Melnick, Ph.D. helps 'talented and successful people get out of their own way',FAST! Informed by 10 years as a researcher at Harvard Medical School, she teaches businesspeople to achieve double to triple digit business growth and career promotions within a year, as well as the ability to make the right choices for a fulfilled life.

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