1.) If you had the chance, to relive this past year, what would you do differently? What would you do the same?
2.) If you knew in advance how your 2008 was going to turn out, would you have made any different choices? If so, what would they have been?
3.) Did anything that you experienced this year surprise you?
While some of us had both big and small changes thrust upon us this year, I'm guessing that most of what your year was like was not that surprising. You see, you can often predict your future since much of it is based on the choices you make (or do not make).
If you knew already that 2009 was going to be the best year yet for you BUT that it depended on what you actually did in 2009, what choices would you start making, what actions would you start taking? How far would you stretch yourself?
Your actions are the true predictors of your future. Isn't it time you took control and created the life you've always wanted to have?