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Raising an empowered child: A lesson in self-knowledge

Help your child cut through the confusion

by Susan A. Haid  |  4758 views  |  0 comments  |      Rate this now! 

There are several simple but critically important keys for raising empowered children.  We can give our kids the tools they need, starting at a very young age.  These tools will empower them throughout their lives as they grow, yet they are core values that will evolve more fully as time passes.  Let me first state that by core values, I am referring to values that develop and mature from within the child and are not imposed upon the child from the outside.  The point is to nurture the growth of concrete navigational equipment that is rooted from within the child and stems from the child’s own personal life experience.  This will result in a powerful form of self- knowledge, otherwise referred to here as “authority,” that is ultimately deeply empowering because it is the result of actual life experience.  There is no better teacher than experience itself.

are 17 basic fundamental concepts to begin with.  In this article I will be addressing the first key concept, which is authority.  For kids, this can be a confusing subject depending on the information they are given.  The bottom line, if we are to cultivate empowerment within a child, is that we must support our children in developing their innate understanding of themselves, who they are, what they think, what they feel, and what they believe.   By this, I mean that we must help our children to understand themselves from the inside out first, rather than imposing concepts from the outside.  We must help our children not only to understand but also respect what they think, feel and believe about their life experiences.  As parents, we must help our children learn to trust their feelings, instincts, thoughts and reactions.  If we separate our kids from this basic and often protective information, we have unwittingly initiated their path of separation from themselves and their consequent ability to move through life in a way that is constructive and healthy.           

We must become very good listeners who can listen without judgment.  First and foremost, we must listen to, honor and respect the thoughts and feelings of our children.  Why is this so important? You see, as a child tells us their story, our listening without imposing judgment or giving advice acknowledges the individuality of their experience and validates and values their thoughts and feelings.  This allows the child’s own discovery process to unfold.  This allows the child’s problem-solving abilities to develop.  And most potently, this allows the child to remain fully connected to their innate and natural abilities to trust their own feelings,  ideas, instincts  and consequent decisions about their life experiences.  This supports the development of a core value system that will be difficult to challenge because it comes from within and is based on personal, real world knowledge. 

About the Author

Susan A. Haid is the creator of the DVD multimedia package Lily's Truth, a book on DVD designed to teach fundamental skills in empowerment, sovereignty, joyful living and liberation.

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