Be prepared for outings. Preparation is the key. I like to keep the diaper bag packed and ready to go in the entryway. I take time to restock when I come back from an outing, which saves me time when I’m trying to get out of the house in a hurry. If I know I need to head out first thing in the morning, I do some extra preparation the night before to avoid morning madness. I'll get the baby’s stuff together (diaper bag, formula, breast milk, etc.), as well as my own things (lunch, clothes, etc.) ready too.
You also need to be prepared to share the workload -- yes, delegate! You have to get your partner involved so there’s a fair division of tasks. He might need to step it up during those first few months! Spend some time together reviewing and dividing tasks fairly between you. Depending on the age of your other kids, they can help out too. Even a toddler can help put his toys away or push a “swiffer” around the house.
Don’t forget to take all the help that's offered. If it's your mother-in-law offering to watch the baby for the afternoon, take it! If your best friend brings dinner, take it! When your hubby offers to "clean" the house, take it! This might mean that things aren’t perfect or exactly the way you want them, but it'll save you time and simplify your life. If you can’t manage the workload as a family, consider hiring professional help even if it’s just on a temporary basis.
These suggestions will definitely help you stay organized and simplify your life with baby. You can talk to experienced moms for even more tips. Your baby won’t stay little for long so enjoy it. Remember to breathe, leave everything as is once in awhile and go on a play date with your baby!
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