

The 36-Hour Day
with Lylah M. Alphonse
I'm a full-time editor, a part-time writer, and a mom and stepmom to five amazing kids, ages 1 to 14. For me it's not about finding balance, it's about the daily juggle-- my career, my commute, freelance work, homework, housework, married life, social life, and parenting-- and finding the time to get it all done.
To learn more about Lylah, check out her Work It, Mom! profile and read her blog at writeeditrepeat.blogspot.com.
When I’ve got several articles to write and even more to edit and traffic was ridiculous and the baby is screaming and the big kids are arguing and dinner’s not ready yet and there’s a bill from the orthodontist waiting at home with more than two zeros before the decimal point, I look at the chaos and think, “Man, this might make for a good story.”
The thing about being a journalist is that you tend to be on the look out for story ideas all the time, everywhere. And when you do get around to writing them all up, not everything in your notebook ends up in your story. And then, once your editor has gotten a hold of it, you’ll find that not everything you put in your story ends up in the published version (I’m a newspaper editor in real life, so I can vouch for this — I do a lot of trimming). What are you supposed to do with all of those ideas that you don’t have time to work on yet?
If you’re freelancing in addition to your full-time job, like I am, you run into another problem: How do you get the word out and promote yourself when, as a working mother, you barely have time to get all your work done?
Blog it.
I have a personal blog, but it’s not really personal. (My truly personal blog is a notebook and a pen.) I use it as a virtual clip file — it’s an electronic version of that old manila folder that reporters keep stashed in their desks, crammed with copies of their most-recent bylines. It also my virtual marketing department — my name and my work is always out there. It’s my stash of ideas. It’s my professional to-do list.
Added bonus: I can keep links to my online networking profiles there for easy reference, I have a handy URL to send to anyone who asks, “So, what are you working on right now?,” and my mom never says, “You didn’t tell me you wrote that” anymore.
But, since potential clients and current employers can see it just as easily as my mom can, I avoid airing my dirty laundry there. They don’t need to know that stuff anyway. (Not that I’m not tempted to hang a little bit of my wash out to dry. Especially with so many interesting stories all around.)
OK, enough blogging. Back to the chaos.
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When I teach writing (elementary school), I teach kids to see life like a writer. I hope they will look for the stories around them and enjoy the experience while they write them on paper.
Daisy | May 16th, 2008 at 7:14 pm
What a great title!!! My daughter, also a home business entrepreneur, has 2 1/2 year old quadruplets, and an older son, 3 1/2 — can you imagine trying to “work” at home with 5 little ones under the age of 4??? She started a special blog, http://MultipleMayhem.com where she claims “chaos is the norm!”. Here she can rant and rave about the “poop” art, babies emptying drawers of clothes, and of course the various temperaments of the babies. Need a little humor, and a way to say “WOW! and I thought my life was a chaos” - read her posts.
Sarah J Doyle | June 2nd, 2008 at 10:43 am