with Amy Urquhart
I’m Amy and I’ve spent the last three years trying to strike that perfect balance between being a wife, mom and professional career woman. I’ve decided that I’ll never perfect the art of “having it all”, but this blog is a chronicle of my attempts to continue to do so. I’m a blogger (my personal blog about Canadian home life is Hearts into Home), gardener, college instructor, wife to Graham and mom to Nate. If you’re also a working mom who finds there just aren’t enough hours in the day, I hope you’ll enjoy this column!
Read her blog at Hearts into Home.
It’s a fact of life for most working moms: At some point or another, whether you work from home or out of the house, you’re going to be trying to get your work done with a little one at your side. Maybe your caregiver has the day off. Maybe it’s a school vacation day but you can’t afford to take one of yours to cover it. Maybe your child is sick. Maybe you’re snowed in. Whatever the reason, here are eight things you can do to help keep your little angel occupied while you make deadline:
1.) Set up a workstation near yours. Stock it with workbooks, coloring books, pens, paints, stickers, play-dough, gak — whatever you like, just make sure they’re all projects or activities your child can do with little or no supervision, and try to include items that they only get to use while you’re working. An old computer keyboard makes it especially appealing for little kids. My preschooler keeps her collection of toy cell phones on hers, as well as a wonderful play laptop from her grandmother and assorted pens, stamps, rulers, and scraps of paper.
2.) Don’t be afraid to use the television. There are times when my kids watch more TV than I’d like, and yes, I do feel guilty about it. But not when I have to work. If I don’t get my work done, the mortgage doesn’t get paid, and that outweighs by far the Is-Two-Hours-of-Dora-Too-Much? issue.
3.) Don’t expect to be able to work in blissful silence. There’s an unwritten rule out there somewhere that the more urgently you need your children to nap, the less they’ll sleep. (My kids swear by this rule.) If you can stand the cacophony, break out the noisy toys — you know, the ones that you never let them use because they’re just too loud and annoying. The novelty of being able to play with them will keep them occupied, and all of the excitement just might lead to a nap afterall.
4.) Take breaks for play. Your kids are more likely to let you work in semi-peace if you take the time to devote your full attention to them in between bursts of work activity. Be completely present for play for 15 minutes, and then ask them to cooperate while you complete that assignment or participate in a conference call. When you’re done, reward them (and yourself) with another scheduled play time.
5.) Set them up for story time. Books on CD or tape are excellent storytime tools for working moms. Choose familiar stories for younger kids, and be sure to have the accompanying book on hand; ask them to pick out a certain word throughout the story — have them point out the word “monkey” during a reading of Curious George, for instance. Older kids can read along with the CD, or explore new (parent-approved) books while you’re working.
6.) Give them an assignment of their own. Freelance writing moms can have their children write (or dictate into a tape recorder) their own articles at their workstations. Give younger kids a set of three pictures, and ask them to build a story around them. Write (or print out) a story for an older child, and ask her to illustrate it. Have him act out a play with finger puppets.
7.) Organize a marathon. Got a Playstation or a Wii or an XBox? Older kids can boost their hand-eye coordination with a game marathon. Whoever gets the best two out of three (or, if you’re really busy, best 7 out of gets a special prize.
8.) Create your own board game. There are a hundred different types of “Monopoly” out there — have your kid come up with a version based at home. Rename properties after ones in your neighborhood and, when the work day is done, play the game.
How do your work from home with little ones? Share your tips and tricks in the comments!
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