

The 36-Hour Day
with Lylah M. Alphonse
I'm a full-time editor, a part-time writer, and a mom and stepmom to five amazing kids, ages 1 to 14. For me it's not about finding balance, it's about the daily juggle-- my career, my commute, freelance work, homework, housework, married life, social life, and parenting-- and finding the time to get it all done.
To learn more about Lylah, check out her Work It, Mom! profile and read her blog at writeeditrepeat.blogspot.com.
Opportunity is knocking. Answer the door already!
Categories: Career, Hacking Life, The Juggle, Uncategorized, Working? Living?
I recently decided that I was going to consider every single career opportunity that came my way. Even the ones that I knew I couldn’t manage would get a closer look, just in case it turned out that there was some way for me to glean some good out of it.
I don’t know if it’s a case of The Law of Attraction or what, but now that my eyes are open, the opportunities are everywhere.
Granted, they’re not all fabulous. In fact, some of them are awfully close to working for free. But each one reminds me that there’s more than one way to achieve a goal, more than one path to success, more than just the one shape I thought my career would or should take.
I get a lot of pitches from PR people. It was tempting to look at the emails and field the phone calls and think, “I’m too busy to deal with this right now.” When I stopped doing that, I started noticing that some of those interruptions were opportunities in disguise.
I talk a lot about the importance of networking, and I decided that I needed to make sure I was walking the walk, too. So I brushed up my LinkedIn profile and sent out some requests for recommendations and made sure I had different versions of my resume ready for targeting different clients. And you know what? It turns out that who you know really does matter as much as (or more than) what you know.
I stopped expecting instant gratification — at home and at work. It was making me feel unsatisfied and resentful, and I need to beĀ inspired and motivated. I had been thinking, “That’ll take too long, it’s not worth starting at all.” But as one of my favorite bloggers, Mary Alice, points out, perserverence pays off. If you keep reaching, you’ll get where you want to go butĀ if you don’t, then you definitely won’t.
Will Rogers was right: Even if you’re on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there.
*Knock Knock*
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So true, all of it.
Leah | November 19th, 2009 at 5:56 pm
Yes, it’s great to be in a situation where opportunities come your way - my practice is ‘never turn down work’ although that was easier to implement before I had kids!
jerilyn | November 21st, 2009 at 11:36 am
my thoughts exactly
vera babayeva | November 23rd, 2009 at 12:30 am