with Angella Dykstra
I'm a mom of three, a professional accountant, and an amateur photographer and writer. I am not a marriage expert. But my husband and I take "Til death do us part" seriously, and here I'll be sharing how we keep our marriage strong while we both do that insane work-life juggle.
Check out my Work It, Mom! profile and my blog, Dutch Blitz.
(This is a post where my husband dies a little inside upon realizing that I am talking about our sex life.)
I don’t plan on getting into gory details (Not that there is any gore involved. Just so you know), but just wanted to talk about having a sex life in general. I am not usually one to talk (Or write!) openly about what goes on between my husband and I behind closed doors.
What happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom.
However. I am a married woman. Who has borne three children. Odds are I am having sex.
I have read numerous articles in my life about how sex is the glue that holds a marriage together. While my husband believe that our faith in God is what keeps our marriage glued together, sex most definitely helps.
I remember when we were trying to get pregnant with each of our children, there was a two-week window where skipping sex was not an option. We were going to get pregnant or die trying.
The pleasant side effect of all of that scheduled sex was that we felt closer to each other. We were more affectionate with each other, and just had more of that I really think you are kind of neat feeling.
As a rule, we make the effort (Heh) to have sex at least twice a week. If not more.
(Did you hear that? That was Honey falling over.)
We have our days when it seems like it is just “one more thing” to do, but I cannot honestly say that I have ever regretted it after all is, erm, said and done.
(Yep. He’s passed out cold.)
It being the weekend and all, I am encouraging you all to do the same. Have a date night! Enjoy each others’ company! GET IT ON.
(I can’t believe I just typed that.)
Here are a few articles I found this week on this very topic.
No need to get to personal (*blush*), but do you do have any tips for spicing up your love life?
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