After reading through the comments on my last post, I don’t think that another “commitment-related” post is in order. I feel like it is time for me to set the record straight on this here column of mine.

I am not a marriage expert in any way, shape or form. Obviously. When the idea to write this column was presented to me, it was because I had “one of the happiest marriages on the Internet.” That made me laugh but in reality, it is kind of true. I love my husband and he loves me. We are inherently compatible. We don’t fight very often, we build each other up instead of tearing each other down, we have fun and we laugh. A lot.

The truth of the matter is that I have no idea what I am really doing.

I am just a girl, married to a boy, trying to make it to forever.

I share my experiences here in the hopes that someone might relate to what I have to say. When I come across articles about relationships I will share them, put my thoughts about them out there, and then throw it out to you guys. I see this site as a place where those of us in committed relationships can come together, talk about what is working for us and maybe find someone who thinks the same as you do.

I once read a quote that said the most powerful phrase in the English language is, “Me too.”

So while you may not agree with what works (for me) or what doesn’t work (for me), you may find a kindred spirit in another person who comments on this little corner of the Internet.

The fact that some people have decided to get nasty with each other in what works for them is a little bit discouraging. The fact that someone stated that they thought some of my post topics were pointing people down the path to divorce is absolutely ludicrous. The obviously aren’t reading very comprehensively.

Marriage is hard, folks. Let’s try to support one another instead of tearing each other down. If posts I write are going to cause people to start attacking each other about their ideals then I want no part of that. I want this to be a place where we help each other get to forever. And maybe have a little bit of fun while doing so.