We don’t have date nights as often as you guys, but we try to mix it up and do some different stuff. One thing we both enjoy is going to a bookshop with a cafe, and browsing around together, flicking through magazines and listening to CDs. Other things we do every so often, instead of (or as well as) the usual dinner out … ten pin bowling, mini golf, luging, hot pools, sports matches, shopping (rarely), movies, picnics, swimming & snorkelling (this is a fave!), concerts, etc. Sometimes we sacrifice date night in favour of doing something with our friends (because babysitters are precious). We’ve got a poker night coming up next Saturday, for example. Although it’s not just the 2 of us, it still feels a little like a date night as we get to dress up and talk without kids around and USUALLY the boys sleep over at my parents’ place, so, yeah. We get to stay out late, and sleep in the next day, and “stuff”