with Angella Dykstra
I'm a mom of three, a professional accountant, and an amateur photographer and writer. I am not a marriage expert. But my husband and I take "Til death do us part" seriously, and here I'll be sharing how we keep our marriage strong while we both do that insane work-life juggle.
Check out my Work It, Mom! profile and my blog, Dutch Blitz.
I miss my husband.
He isn’t out of town, nor am I. But I miss him.
April is a month that pulls us apart. I’m working six (long) days a week, because I’m an accountant and it’s “tax season.” (I’m Canadian, so “tax season” lasts until April 30th. Usually. As April 30th is on a weekend, the deadline is extended until May 2nd. SHOOT ME NOW.) He’s the Director of Children & Families at our church and it’s the wind down to summer and there are events happening ALL OF THE TIME.
I just want a date night alone with him. Or a date lunch. It’s not even remotely possible until April is over which makes me want it even more.
It’s not that we don’t talk or communicate but we do a lot of it via IM or text and it’s just not the same, you know? We get snippets over dinner between our three children telling us random facts or farting (incessantly) and we’ll get to the end of the day and have “special time” and then who has the energy to, you know, talk?
I know that this is temporary and that April will, eventually, come to an end. History confirms it. I also know that I just miss the “regular” busy as opposed to the “crazy” busy.
How do you guys cope when life is so busy that you don’t get the together time that you need? I could use some encouragement, here.
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