

Committed: The Ties that Bond
with Angella Dykstra
I'm a mom of three, a professional accountant, and an amateur photographer and writer. I am not a marriage expert. But my husband and I take "Til death do us part" seriously, and here I'll be sharing how we keep our marriage strong while we both do that insane work-life juggle.
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My husband and I have been dreaming about getting away together, just the two of us. The last time we managed to do so was three years ago, when we went to Las Vegas for three nights. We’d love to go to Hawaii, as we’ve never been, and we have enough Alaska Airlines miles to get there for free.
Alas, the three children we’re raising aren’t old enough to be left alone and at this point in time there is nobody who can come and watch them for us for a week. I set that Hawaii dream on fire last night in a rare instance of facing reality (that’s usually my husband’s specialty.)
Instead, we’re going to trade weekends with his brother and sister-in-law (they have two kids), and at least get away for a complete night or two, just the two of us, and allow our in-laws to do the same. Until that happens, we’ll continue to get away when we can on date nights. Or date days, like today. We have seasons passes to the local ski hill and are going to spend the school hours carving through the fresh powder that’s accumulated over the last few days.
Do you get away without your kids often? How do you manage it?
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It’s been 3 years since you went to Vegas?! How is that possible…doesn’t seem like it - oops, sorry, that sounds more like I’m rubbing it in…I’m not.
Trading weekends sounds like a perfect second choice.
And that snowflake on Matthew’s eye…yep, I kept trying to wipe it off my screen. :S
Amanda | March 1st, 2013 at 10:46 am
We’ve been away alone once since our son was born. Grandpa and Grandma came to stay and while it was SO hard to leave him (he was just over 12 months) I am so glad we did. We’re hoping to get away for a couple nights agin here in the near future.
Rhi | March 1st, 2013 at 3:33 pm
We’ve only had the baby for 7 weeks and I get tense about going to the store without him!
We are talking about going on a hot holiday in December. We have thrown around the idea of going, just the two of us. I get a little knot in my throat, but we’ll see when the time comes. Lucky for us, we have plenty of baby sitters who will be delighted to take our little guy for date nights and maybe even long weekends. My mom would LOVE to take him for a whole week
Heather | March 3rd, 2013 at 1:46 am
We rarely get away without our kids, since we have no family living nearby. Last summer we did go away for a weekend tho, a friend took our kids for 3 nights for us. It was such a treat - but I missed them. Hoping to get away again this year, maybe for 3 nights instead of only two.
monstergirlee | March 4th, 2013 at 9:01 pm
Three years is a long time’. Its somewhat difficult tp leave your kids I know, however the couple needs time. Great idea to leave them with your in laws and then do the same for them.
Michelle | March 7th, 2013 at 8:51 pm