with Angella Dykstra
I'm a mom of three, a professional accountant, and an amateur photographer and writer. I am not a marriage expert. But my husband and I take "Til death do us part" seriously, and here I'll be sharing how we keep our marriage strong while we both do that insane work-life juggle.
Check out my Work It, Mom! profile and my blog, Dutch Blitz.
My husband and I share a bed — and a bedroom, obviously — but I’ve heard stories of couples who have their own rooms. Their own rooms! All to themselves! I suppose my husband and I do have our own rooms, in a sense. I have a craft room and he has his spousal avoidance center workshop, but when it comes time to go to sleep, we go to the same room and the same bed.
In this article in Today’s Parent, the author explains that they have separate rooms for good reason. She has insomnia and he is an epic snorer. The two do not mix well, so they each have their own rooms and have “conjugal visits.” Would we do the same if we were in that situation? Possibly, I guess, if it meant being well-rested and able to cope with life. I’d sure miss drifting off to sleep together and knowing that my husband was just inches away. As it is now, if one of us is away from home I have a horrible time sleeping without him beside me.
How about you? Do you/would you sleep in separate bedrooms (permanently)?
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