

Cornered Office
with Mir Kamin
I'm a freelance writer and mother of two working from home, which theoretically means I can set my own schedule so as to best accommodate my family. In reality, "flexible hours" often equals "working too much." Yes, I'm my own boss; no, that doesn't mean life is easy. It's hard to leave the office when you live there. But I love what I do and feel very lucky. And not just because I get paid to work in my pajamas.
To learn more about Mir, check out her profile on Work It, Mom! or visit her blog at http://www.wouldashoulda.com/
In light of my last post, I thought it might make sense to talk about a way in which my family has been affected by the changing economy.
And while I’m not going to cheer for the rising costs of groceries, or anything, I definitely do see this one as a blessing in disguise: After a few months of out-of-control food spending, we made the decision to start planning out our meals and only going to the store once a week.
Now, sure, I’d always sort of planned meals, you know, in the theoretical, “hey, this is on sale and I could make that recipe with it” sort of way, but I’d never planned a week’s menu and shopped specifically for it. No, I was always running out to the store for that one ingredient I needed or—worse!—crying uncle and ordering a pizza on a busy day because I just never managed to figure out dinner.
First food prices started rising, and then gas prices went berserk, and then—in my corner of the world, anyway—the gas shortages began. It’s not unusual, in my town, right now, for all of the gas stations to be out of gas. Put all of these factors together and you have the new regime: One grocery trip, menu fully planned, and that’s how we eat for the week. Period.
Honestly, I expected to find it very stifling and restricting. What if I’d planned for stew when I just wasn’t in the mood for it? What if we ran out of milk mid-week? (Hey, what if I was smart enough to buy two gallons at once instead of running out every week?)
My fears were for naught, as it turned out. I thought I was organized, before, but now I really am organized. And I love it. I love the no-brainer factor, now, of knowing each and every night what’s to be made for dinner, and who’s in charge of cooking it, and that we definitely have everything we need to make that dish. And I don’t miss those extra supermarket trips at all.
So two remarkable things have happened since we instituted this plan. First, our grocery bills have gone down (surprise). With less gee-this-sounds-good purchasing and no emergency trips that turn into buying more items, we’re spending less. I expected this. What I didn’t expect was the second benefit: We’re eating better than ever, with less waste. We build “leftovers” nights into the rotation, so I’m sure to cook enough for ample leftovers when necessary, and then—joy of joy, wonder of wonders!—we actually eat those foods before they turn into separate ecosystems in the refrigerator. Hooray!
(The thing about planning a night of leftovers, with kids in the house, is that I made certain it’s something they’ll eat. If they’re not big on it the first time ’round, they’re sure as heck not going to eat it reheated.)
I’m trying new recipes; my husband is cooking more often; the kids are pitching in; I can’t think of a single thing about the new plan that hasn’t turned out to be really great. Sure, things happen and sometimes plans are foiled; one afternoon we had to make an emergency orthodontist run and that was the end of that night’s dinner plans. But for the most part we’ve stuck to it, saved money, and eaten a lot of fabulous food—proof positive that you can be a crazed, two-working-parents household and still have awesome, home-cooked meals.
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Even as a single, I ‘ve done this and found it works quite well. I’m paid monthly, so I do a general list of the 12 - 18 meals I want for dinner for the month (lots of leftovers for other dinners and lunches) and do all of the non-produce shopping in one big trip. One, maybe two stops during the month for the produce, and I’m set.
Diane | October 2nd, 2008 at 8:08 am
How do you resist trying awesome new recipes you see?
I try stretching a roast or planning leftovers nights, but whenever I go to grab the stuff out of the fridge to put dinner together, it turns out my husband ate it when I wasn’t looking. Except when I PLAN for that, then stuff goes bad, and I get the “wasting food” lecture. Can’t win!
Brigitte | October 2nd, 2008 at 10:06 am
Don’t you just love it when something actually works out well?
dad | October 2nd, 2008 at 10:53 am
Diane: We consume waaaaay too much milk and produce for me to cut down that much, but that’s admirable!
Brigitte: I save the awesome recipes for the next week.
Dad: I do! Come on over, I’ll make you something yummy for dinner.
Mir | October 2nd, 2008 at 11:00 am
I’ve been doing this too. The other thing about it that I love is that there still is some flexibility. For example, if Red ends up at a friend’s house for dinner the night we were going to have something she loves, then we can just rearrange the week. So what if we have Thursday’s meal on Tuesday and Tuesday’s meal on Thursday. We’ve got the ingredients, it’s still planned and we’re all good.
Although, I haven’t quite cut out the occasional, “We out of ____!” trips to the store. But there are multiple grocery stores on my way home (as well as the dreaded wal-mart) so I can easily run in and get whatever without wasting much gas. And now that I’m actually keeping track of all of our purchases, impulse buying other stuff doesn’t happen too much.
Jenni | October 2nd, 2008 at 12:31 pm
This is the plan at my house and I only make emergency grocery trips for wine! We are flexible with what we eat when and I usually make at least one casserole on the weekend to have for dinner one night and then use for lunches during the week. I always try to keep chicken, ground meat, and a few vegetables in the freezer and pasta and bread and tortillas in the pantry so I can throw together a quick pasta, taco or sandwich.
Shelly in Austin | October 2nd, 2008 at 2:46 pm
We don’t meal plan this way (yet), but keep a pretty well stocked pantry and freezer so we can make just about anything if we’ve got the “fresh” ingredients to go with it. We live 15-20 minutes from the grocery store and while that’s not a long ways, it is enough that I don’t want to run to the store unless really necessary.
For one of your future week meals - you turned me on to Simplyrecipes.com - I made the sweet and sour chicken last night and it was delish! Double sauce, too!
Jamie AZ | October 2nd, 2008 at 3:16 pm
We started doing this a few months ago and have seen the same changes as you have. I HATED the after-lunch “WHAT THE HECK is for dinner?” drama.
I love the freedom that it gives us with that extra free time not spent at the grocery store!
angella | October 2nd, 2008 at 4:23 pm
i have menu-planning envy!! i need to do this… and i know i have time, i just need to DO IT.
my one stress/fear factor is that i will be the one planning/purchasing but it would have to be my hubby that actually follows the recipees and cooks since i dont get home until after 6 and (ugh) sometimes 7pm…
anyone split up dinner duty this way? does it work?
Kate | October 3rd, 2008 at 1:54 pm
Kate: We do the planning together, though I typically do the shopping, and then we take turns cooking during the week. We also use the crockpot a lot (A LOT) which means that often the prep can be done in the morning (by either of us) and no one has to scurry around making dinner in the evening.
Mir | October 3rd, 2008 at 2:01 pm
Kate: my boyfriend and I do meals that way. A lot of the time, he preps and I finish, or I start prep the night before for him to finish. We only eat past eight pm on nights neither of us WANTS food until that late, and it works out really well. We’re also big on planning meals and the week together, based on what we like and know that we will eat.
and two growing young adults: we dont’ really get a lot of leftovers
Libby | October 3rd, 2008 at 9:31 pm
Mir this is a life long goal of mine and we are always working at it. One thing is for sure, it is way cheaper than the never ending runs to the grocery store.
My biggest thing about cooking is I am so lonely by myself in the kitchen and our kitchen is very blocked off from the living room. My husband is good about cooking with me but it likely won’t be feasible forever when we get busier. As a result my number one house hunting wish is a kitchen that is open to the living room, perhaps with the sink positioned in such a way it faces the living room where all the excitement is.
lindsay | October 4th, 2008 at 4:20 pm
Mir,
This is an awesome idea that I have tried to implement before. I just don’t seem to find the time to sit down and make out the menu or grocery list! Reading this and everyone’s comments has put me in the mood to try it!
Do you have any special lists or anything that you use?
Patti Coiner | October 8th, 2008 at 12:33 pm
Patti: I don’t, actually. We sit down and just talk about what we might want to eat that week. We have a fairly wide “stable” of tried-n-true recipes, and I generally experiment a bit (or look for new recipes) over the weekend.
Mir | October 8th, 2008 at 12:35 pm
We do this. Monday is grocery day, so on Sunday nights I print out the upcoming week from our Outlook calendar. It really helps the planning because we can see what nights we need a quick meal due to activities, and what nights are open for more relaxed dining.
The nights when Dad has a late meeting are fend for yourself nights - which often means the girls and I have bowls of cereal and call it done!
Nancy R | October 10th, 2008 at 3:58 pm