

Cornered Office
with Mir Kamin
I'm a freelance writer and mother of two working from home, which theoretically means I can set my own schedule so as to best accommodate my family. In reality, "flexible hours" often equals "working too much." Yes, I'm my own boss; no, that doesn't mean life is easy. It's hard to leave the office when you live there. But I love what I do and feel very lucky. And not just because I get paid to work in my pajamas.
To learn more about Mir, check out her profile on Work It, Mom! or visit her blog at http://www.wouldashoulda.com/
Once upon a time there was a freelancer. She lived in New England, and it snowed all the time. Most of the time, even when it snowed, there was still school. Occasionally school was canceled for a day, and her children ran around like crazed monkeys for a while, and then they went back to school the next day.
Then that freelancer moved to Georgia, where it never snowed. Hooray! But then one day it did snow. It snowed a lot. It snowed so much that trees fell and cars crashed and power was lost and school was canceled for two days in a row and then the children required things like a warm place to hang out and food to eat—away from the house (and therefore, the freelancer’s home office)—and suddenly the deadlines were piling up and the freelancer’s blood pressure was getting a wee bit high.
Too bad this isn’t a work of fiction.
Look, I know that we’re relatively lucky, here; the power came back on last night, and even when we didn’t have power we had someplace to go that did. I took my computer with me and was able to do a little work here and there. It’s not a big deal, in the grand scheme of things.
On the other hand, having both children home for two days in a row (when no one has the decency to be sick, which would at least afford me some quiet time while they nap or lay on the couch) on days when I need to be working is a big schedule disruption for me. And by “schedule disruption” I of course actually mean “giant pain in the ass.”
The kids are old enough now that I can send them off to amuse themselves, of course, and they do, for periods of time. Thank God for the Wii, for example, and for the overdue library books I forgot to bring back to the library before the Snowpocalypse started. But when you have more than one child, even the most harmonious of settings eventually disintegrates into “he’s touching me” or “she’s not letting me” or something else that makes me want to say, “Until I’m done with this project, everyone go to your rooms and stare at the ceiling.”
Oh, well. Sometimes I just have to do what I have to do. I got very little done during the day yesterday, so I did some work last night after the kids went to bed. I have to remind myself that that kind of flexibility is a lucky thing.
Especially when it means that a restoration of power in the house needs to be celebrated with a couple of games of Mario Kart.
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I feel your pain! except besides the two kids home unexpectedly, my teacher husband is also home. which sounds perfect, he can entertain the kids right? well yes that does happen . . . but I also find HE needs entertained some times, and also I want to join in the family fun the 3 of them are having while I work away in the home office.
it’s just best when everyone goes to school as the master plan dictates!
gretchen | March 4th, 2009 at 10:05 am
ha ha! nice post. I like your little story in the beginning.
vera babayeva | March 9th, 2009 at 7:41 pm
Why can’t they just have school year round? I don’t see any need for winter break, spring break or 10 weeks of summer vacation. All it does is make parents crazy trying to figure out what to do and spend lots of money on camp.
I live in CA so no snow days anymore, although I used to live in Boston and remember those days when it didn’t look so bad outside but schools still canceled. I know what it’s like having the kids at home and still needing to get work done. I have heard that Mario Kart is one of the best games around though…
Liann | March 10th, 2009 at 12:17 pm