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I'm Britt. I work full time as a mom, wife, blogger and salesperson with a fancy management title. And I'm Robyn. I work as a project manager and between corporate meetings manage to cook a home-made meal every day. This blog is about our experiences of juggling full-time work with family.

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Sexual Harassment in the Workplace

Categories: discrimination, office life, working mom

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Last week one of the managers at my company was terminated.  His exit was swift.  One day he was here the next day he was noticeably absent.  After a long investigation, the company terminated his employment due to Sexual Harassment.  Allegedly he harassed multiple women at the company, including at least one of his direct reports.  While his team is protecting the woman he harassed, they have been very vocal about their pleasure in the company’s actions and his termination of employment here.

I’m willing to put money on it that, if asked, nearly every working woman could cite an experience of being harassed in the workplace.  Whether it was the creepy guy who always started at your breasts, or the drunken co-worker who tried to take things to another level at the company holiday party, or the man who thought that keeping a calendar of scantily-clad women on his desk was perfectly acceptable.  With the lines of what is unlawful sexual harassment and what is just inappropriate workplace behavior, what defines sexual harassment remains blurred between black and white.

Sure, many of us haven’t had to endure extreme and unlawful sexual harassment in the workplace.  I’ve never been touched inappropriately at work or told explicit sexual comments.  But I do know women that have been the victims of overt sexual harassment.  And sadly, most of these women never reported the man that violated their safety at work.  Afraid of the repercussions, many women chooseto leave the company without so much as a mention of the incidents.  Not only did they have to put up with the harassment, they now had to deal with the stresses of changing companies… and leaving their perpetrator free and clear to harass another victim.

I feel enormously proud of the woman who stepped forward in this case.  By going to HR with a formal complaint, an investigation was launched.  During that investigation, other women stepped forward with similar complaints.  I don’t know if those women would have come forward on their own volition.  Ultimately, the guy got what he deserved — fired for his inappropriate behavior with a mark in his record to ensure he could never work for this company again.  And the women, who all kept their anonymity, continue to work for the company without fear of judgment or retaliation.

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  • I was harassed once when I was younger. I was working as a volunteer during college at a non-profit. I reported the harassment, and the team there was responsive and supportive. However, I remember distinctly the feelings of self-doubt and shame that I had as I reported him.

    I currently work as a therapist for sexual offenders, and can clearly see now how his behavior was vastly inappropriate. Sometimes I wish I could tell my young self that I was on the money and to not punish myself for being honest.

    Jess  |  October 26th, 2008 at 4:12 pm

  • Women always claim that men ‘harass’ them by staring at their breasts. I was accused once of staring at a woman’s breast; what? No, I don’t think guys stare as much as insecure mentally-unstable women think; I think they just freak out and whine about ridiculous things like children. Nobody is staring at your tits; yes, people see them because you choose to show cleavage, but mostly people just think you are shallow and superficial and think about other stuff even when they are looking in your general direction. Ultimately, a lot of women just need to grow up. Tired of men showing sexual interest in you? Deal with it, it’s not that bad. Its one thing to have a consistent pattern of behavior from an individual who seems to stalk you, but to complain about someone staring at you? Fuck, my girlfriend once said I was staring at some other girl and I didn’t even see her, I was busy thinking about intelligent things, which women apparently can’t seem to do.

    Lame  |  March 31st, 2009 at 2:32 pm

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