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with Britt and Robyn
I'm Britt. I work full time as a mom, wife, blogger and salesperson with a fancy management title. And I'm Robyn. I work as a project manager and between corporate meetings manage to cook a home-made meal every day. This blog is about our experiences of juggling full-time work with family.
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I don’t know if you’ve heard, but the economy sucks right now. I’m going to assume that you don’t need a link to a current news article to know that things are bad all over.
My family is one of the lucky ones. We both have jobs, can pay our mortgage, put food on the table and still afford a few small luxuries. But we’re definitely being more careful than we were a year (or two) ago. I know most people in our area are in similar situations or worse. Much, much worse in some cases.
At the same time, the public school systems are suffering. Badly.
School boards in Florida (where I live) have tossed around cost saving ideas from laying off armies of teachers to pairing down to a 4 day school week. The fact that Florida has no state income tax doesn’t help. We know our schools need money.
And yet, every time I get yet another fundraiser letter sent home, I can’t help but shake my head and feel a little like a well that’s been pumped dry.
Chocolate bars. Books. Magazine subscription. Gourmet popcorn. Scented candles. Every week it seems my son’s elementary school is encouraging me to buy yet another frivolous item with a reminder that a portion of proceeds will go to your child’s school that is desperate for money. Oh, and your child has a chance to win some ridiculous plastic trinket as a reward for selling stuff.
I’m frustrated because many of these fundraisers are based around items I wouldn’t buy in a good economy and things I’ve definitely eliminated in a crap economy. But most importantly, I know how little of my money will actually end up going to support the school itself.
For starters, those plastic trinkets that I’ll find in the bottom of my son’s bookbag after the last day of school? Completely unnecessary. I’d rather see my money going towards supplies for his classroom.
And what about the majority of money going to the fundraising company? While I want to do what I can to keep manufacturers open and jobs available, my first priority when writing that particular check is to help fund my son’s education. I hate the idea that $49 of that $50 box of chocolates is going to some company that I have no loyalty to.
Of course, I don’t feel like I can explain that to my son. By the time he comes home with the note in hand, he’s already been told that he’s helping to raise money for his school and concluded that if your parents don’t buy this soy candle it means they don’t love you or care about your education. It’s not easy explaining things like “overhead” and “waste” to a nine year old boy.
I’d prefer if my school district would simply solicit donations. Or maybe there’s some pact we can sign that says “in exchange for not participating in any of this year’s frivolous fundraisers, I will send you a check one time for XX amount of dollars.” Surely there’s a way to turn that into a tax deduction, right?
Am I the only Scrooge wanting to check out of the never ending fundraiser race?
Has anyone else found a more effective way of supporting their local school system in a bad economy?
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My thoughts exactly. I do not buy those things. I refuse. I will make a donation to the school.
vera babayeva | March 18th, 2009 at 7:11 am
I throw that stuff in the trash. I’d much rather just give the school money too.
Finn | March 18th, 2009 at 8:30 am
I understand the kid sized guilt, but I would ask your child’s teacher how you can directly help the classroom-perhaps supplies are needed.
darwinsgirl | March 18th, 2009 at 8:33 am
I have been suggesting this to our school for a number of years. The principal always responds with “But the kids like to sell stuff” Only because you tell them that they should & for each &$%* fundraiser you have an assembly getting the kids all pumped up.
Ack! I think you may have touched a nerve here Miss Britt!
Domestic Extraordinaire | March 18th, 2009 at 10:50 am
My kids’ school actually officially did away with those fundraisers and instead does a yearly solicitation for cash donations. They call it the “Unfundraiser” and it’s incredibly successful. I agree, we are SO much more likely to just write a $20 check right there than to decide to struggle with the fundraiser thing. You might check in with some of the other parents and see whether they’d be interested, too. It definitely can be done and can be successful.
Regina | March 18th, 2009 at 10:56 am
My son isn’t old enough for school but I get hit up every month from either my niece or that lady at work with a school aged son. Since these kids are at different schools in different districts I get request for a lot of different sales. I have limited myself to only buying from my niece. They do a fruit sale in the spring and the wrapping paper sale in the fall. The fruit sale money is for a new play ground at the elem. school.
I’m also a member of our local section of Society of Women Engineers we do a flower sales fundraiser in the spring and fall. We get 50% of the sales total. Our section uses the money made to support our scholarship fund. At least the flower bulbs sale is something people can use and they are garunteed to grow. If they don’t the company will refund the whole amount.
Angel | March 19th, 2009 at 8:59 am
I don’t buy fundraiser crap. My step-daughter has had 2 school fundraiser and two girl scout fundraiser and they only thing I bought was girl scout cookies.
I don’t need magazine subscriptions, I don’t need frozen (expensive!) cookie dough, I don’t need a super saver card that is only useful at places we don’t go.
The super saver card is the most annoying because my step-daughter really wants to sell A LOT of those because the people that sell so many get to ride in a limo (!) to a pizza place for a pizza party.
Jenni | March 19th, 2009 at 10:44 am
My co-workers are always bringing that garbage in. I just write a check to the school or PTO. I have never understood why, since 100% of the people I have talked with are against these fundraisers, schools don’t just try to get donations.
Grace | March 19th, 2009 at 12:36 pm
I hate school fundraisers. Even as a child, my family didn’t participate. My mom and dad would just write a check made out to the school or the PTA and call it a day.
Robyn | March 20th, 2009 at 9:10 am
I feel the same way. Our school is doing a cocktail party/silent auction–$75 per person, and how do you not come? There has to be an alternative.
How to Party with an Infant | March 20th, 2009 at 1:54 pm
Hi Miss Britt,
I also beleive that there are to many fund raisers in hopes that the school will earn some money to help. If your school is in need of educational books please look at my website to see what Usborne Books and more has to offer the books are wonderful and the programs that the company offers are generous. The future of our world depends on the education of our children. If you would like additional information please let me know.
Diana
Diana | March 20th, 2009 at 2:48 pm
Has your child’s school tried a knowledge-a-thon? Teachers create a list of questions, appropriate to the age level and connected to the curriculum, kids gather sponsors and learn the questions. They get “quizzed” by volunteer testers, and then they collect their pledges. We’ve done one for about 12 years at our school. Every child participates, regardless of sponsors. We get community sponsors for those who need them. Question lists are modified for special needs students and those with limited English profiency.
In fact, ours is next week, and the kids are studying like crazy. No product sales, no junky catalogs. In our low-income neighborhood, it’s perfect.
Daisy | March 20th, 2009 at 4:32 pm
No, you are not a SCROOGE. It is like that everywhere, It seems as though we have fund raisers every other week around here. My family and friends are gettting like, “I told you last time I don’t have the money.” I like your idea about the one time donation. It seems to me that the same parents that do all the selling with their kids, and others just don’t even try anymore.
KP | March 22nd, 2009 at 7:58 am
I understand how you feel. Your school might want to consider fundraisers where people don’t spend money they don’t really have on things they don’t really need. There are programs where people spend no new money but switch stores for the kinds of household necessities they’re already buying and the school gets a commission. There are over 1,000 nonprofits using this program and we’ve started it up here in Ohio. The school can find out more at http://www.ShoppingFundraiser.com.
Carolyn | March 22nd, 2009 at 1:40 pm
I don’t mind fund raisers when they are selling decent items I would actually buy. The fund raisers around here have (mostly) gotten better. My nephews school does a really good one - they sell gift cards. Because the school buys them in such bulk they get a good return on what they keep and I can spend $50.00 to get a $50.00 gift card to Shop Rite or Old Navy, etc.
Dawn | March 24th, 2009 at 1:18 pm