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Diaper bag round-up: the most bag for your buck
Categories: Baby gear, Fashion, Toothsome products (for grownups)
I was so interested in your comments and suggestions about infant carriers, I hope you don’t mind if I bring up another baby gear topic: diaper bags. I don’t really need to buy a new diaper bag, but I do like considering the various possibilities, and who knows—maybe the Perfect Bag is out there, just calling my name.
The bag I chose before Riley was born is a plain black messenger-type style, easy to wipe clean and not too big. It works just fine, although I found I didn’t really carry it all that often; most of the time I just crammed what I needed (a diaper kit [diaper and wipes stashed in a Ziplock bag, which doubles as your garbage container], a washcloth or two, a bottle) in my normal purse. Or stashed a go-to bag in my car that also contained a larger selection of stuff: change of clothes, Tylenol, bibs, etc. I didn’t really want to put everything I might possibly need in one giant accessory and haul that around, but I can see that even lightly packing for both a toddler and a baby might necessitate a larger carryall.
Diaper bags seem kind of like weddings—you can go the utilitarian route or the fancy blowout extravaganza, and whether it’s collectively agreed upon as practical or not doesn’t really matter as long as you’re happy with your choice. I find myself lusting a bit over the more baroque, expensive options, just because some of them are so damn pretty, but I have to remind myself: do I normally carry an overly decorative, fancy-ass purse? No, because I like accessories that can go with a ratty pair of jeans and Danner boots, if necessary. So in my case, simple is probably better, despite the tempting cuteness of some of the higher end brands.
Enough blah-blah, let’s go to the bags!

Dahlia Shoulder Bag, Petunia Pickle Bottom. Oh, these bags kill me. They’re just so adorable and ridiculous and uberfancy. I love that the strap on this model has a cell phone holder. “Oh, hi, I’m just scraping milk-barf out of my chenille-filigreed bag. What’s up with you?” $175.

Mothership, Fleurville. Insulated bottle holder, padded shoulder strap, multiple pockets . . . this one’s got a lot of features, in addition to being easy on the eyes. I like the fabric options. $150.

Lexington, Reese Li. Waterproof, wipeable, straps to a stroller, and features a “signature pacifier dangler”! Well, this IS pretty cute, what with its spiffy stripes and all. $150.

Parent Survival Bag, Eagle Creek. I’ve read good things about this bag, it seems to offer a lot in terms of practicality: lots of pockets, backpack straps, and a diaper changing pad called, awesomely, the “Poop Deck”. $100.

Sport Bag, DadGear. I love the look of these DadGear bags, much more than the foofier DaisyGear products. Seems like lots of thought went into this design, with easy-access wipe holders, multi-use pockets, stroller hangers, etc. $67.

Vine Truckette, Queen Bee. Not technically a diaper bag, I know, but it looks like it could work quite well—the bag is vinyl, and the strap is a hardy seatbelt type material. I’ve been meaning to buy a Queen Bee bag for years, their stuff is consistantly neat-looking. $65.

Little Tripper, Land’s End. Another bag that seems to have a solid fan base—I like that it’s simple, not too big, and somewhat rugged looking.
So! Out of the eighty bajillion diaper bag choices out there, which did you go with—assuming you used one? Did you end up loving your bag, or hating it? Do you have a hot tip for the One Bag to Rule Them All?
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I started out with the Little Tripper, which is great. It’s still what I use most of the time. For long days out and about I did finally get the big Lands End bag. Part of that is that we use cloth diapers most of the time, and they are bulkier to carry around, and also now I need to carry some toys with me, and it has more room for those. One extra thing I like about the big Lands End bag is that it has a smaller bag (without a handle) that comes out of it that I use for hikes, because it tucks into our normal backpack nicely. I have to use the smaller changing pad from the little tripper with it, though; the one from the Do Everything doesn’t fit.
I did think about getting a Kecci diaper bag, which has some patterns similar to the Petunia Picklebottom ones, but a much more reasonable price tag.
Elizabeth | October 19th, 2007 at 4:23 am
Queen Bee does make diaper bags in the messenger bag style! The line is called “Chickpea” Oh she’s so crafty. http://www.buyolympia.com/queenbee/Browse?category=chickpea-diaperbags
michelle | October 19th, 2007 at 6:39 am
I have the Fleurville Mothership and I love it for my two babies. I love having the outside pockets and it comes with a changing pad, wipes case and a zippered bag for dirty clothes or whatever. The outside is covered in clear vinyl so it’s easy to wipe clean and it’s got little metal feet on the bottom that keep it standing up straight and keep the bottom from getting scuffed up.
It’s a big bag, though, and if you’re not used to carrying a diaper bag it might be more than you need. Fleurville does make lots of other bags, however.
I must admit that I probably would not have bought this bag for myself though (it was a shower present). I couldn’t bring myself to fork over $150 for a diaper bag. And if I would have broken down and gotten it for myself, I would have gotten it in the “pink stripe” pattern instead of the “pink and chocolate”. But beggars can’t be choosers, right?
Cara | October 19th, 2007 at 7:19 am
I have a red skip hop. I like it because it’s not super bulky yet somehow carries all I need. Plus, dad can use it without embarrassment. http://www.skiphop.com/mm5/merchant.mvc?Screen=PROD&Store_Code=SH&Category_Code=DB&Product_Code=112000
Mika | October 19th, 2007 at 10:50 am
ooooooh I like the parent survival bag and the little tripper!
I had a really weird diaper bag, it was like a big cube, really hard to carry but I liked the colors.
Eric's Mommy | October 19th, 2007 at 11:56 am
I looked at tons of bags trying to get ‘the perfect one’, registered for a backpack one (which I returned after figuring everything would just fall to the bottom).
6 months in , I’m still using the free one from Enfamil for daily trips. I also got a smaller free one from Similac and I use that for my breast pump. Perfect. Certainly not something that screams ‘look at me’, but I figure the less attention I draw to myself, the better! Let us know what you decide!
Sarah | October 19th, 2007 at 12:15 pm
skip hop’s are insanely popular in nyc. they are strapped to the back of every maclaren stroller so they must work.
jen | October 19th, 2007 at 12:35 pm
Ooooh! I LOVE this topic. I am going to look at each bag and savor all the little details of each.
I have many diaper bags because I am a bag whore. My favorite is the Slingtote by Fleurville. It is smaller than the Mothership and it comes with two shoulder handles instead of the cross-the-body messenger type strap that I HATE. Trying to hold a baby and sling a messenger strap over my shoulder was just too annoying!
I really like the Lexington above. I am going to go salivate over it somewhere in cyberspace.
Katie | October 19th, 2007 at 12:52 pm
I have been using a Sally Spicer bag for the last year and it has been awesome. The only problem I ever have is that sometimes when it’s on my shoulder and I lean over, my keys fall out of the pocket. But otherwise, it is roomy and cute and comes in loads of different colors. Three different baby styles, too.
http://sallyspicerbags.com/
They also sell closeout/past season bags on Zappos.
Emily | October 19th, 2007 at 1:37 pm
I hardly ever used my diaper bag either so I was thinking next time I might just get a big ass purse instead. Which, I guess…is basically the definition of a diaper bag. What a helpful and awesome comment this is turning out to be.
I love the Lexington from your choices.
Tessie | October 19th, 2007 at 1:42 pm
We used the day tripper from Land’s End with Baby #1, but now with 2 boys, I found it to be too small. So now we use a backpack, but I hate it - for the reason mentioned above - the stuff falls to the bottom and is in a constant state of mess. But the hubs likes it.
Laurie | October 19th, 2007 at 2:23 pm
I will never understand the need for a “diaper bag” when you can just get a tote at Target or, like somebody else mentioned, a big ass purse.
I have a purse/backpack that is very roomy and can fit a few diapers, some wipes and a snack. If I’m going somewhere where I need more than that, I have my regular old backpack which does the trick.
Jean | October 19th, 2007 at 3:44 pm
I love bags and most of these options look great! I have a couple of sally spicer tote bags and they look fantastic…or they did until my cat decided she liked to eat the edges of them and now they are frayed. Stupid cat.
I have 2 of these bags from REI (in a different green than appears on the website and in a brick red) and love them:
http://www.rei.com/product/706285?vcat=REI_SSHP_TRAVEL_TOC
I think they are similar to the Land’s End Little Tripper and I just throw in a diaper pad from one of my other diaper bags. There’s a drink pocket on either side for sippy cup/bottle and plenty of room in front for pen, wallet, iPhone, etc.
Another great option is the Skip Hop changing wallet. You can throw this into any other regular bag and go. Target sells them now (as well as larger Skip Hop bags). Here’s the camo version:
http://www.target.com/Spark-Skip-Hop-Changing-Wallet/dp/B000QCL4AM/sr=1-5/qid=1192807299/ref=sr_1_5/601-6655217-6456906?ie=UTF8&index=target&rh=k%3Askip%20hop&page=1
I love the look of the Queen Bee bags (I have one I use for a briefcase sometimes) but they have 2 issues that to me wouldn’t make them great diaper bags (at least the version I have). One is that there aren’t any interior pockets for all the bits and pieces I carry around - it’s just a black hole of bag for things to get lost in. The other is that they are very floppy and unstructured - I prefer a diaper bag to have a little structure so it will stay upright when I put it on the floor.
I have 2 boys who are a little farther apart than Riley and secondpus will be (19 months) and I agree w/the poster above who said that with 2 boys you need more space. All of a sudden it’s the newborn diapers plus toddler diapers, spit-up cloths plus toddler bibs, extra wipes for newborn blowouts, change of clothes for the baby (see: blowouts; see also: spitting up), bottles & formula (since I think that’s what you use, right?), snacks for toddler, better thrown in something to carry the baby in, hats because it’s winter, and DAMN, where did all of this stuff come from???
Now that my 2nd is almost 1 we’re finally starting to be able to cut back on the diaper bag again. I had forgotten how much stuff a little baby needs, even if you’re a minimalist.
yasmara | October 19th, 2007 at 3:47 pm
I own a couple of diaper bags but the one I use all the time is the Little Tripper. I can fit diapers, wipes, formula, a bottle or 2 and a few small toys or an extra change of clothes in it. I like the little zippered vinyl bag that can be used to hold messy clothes in case of a blowout while you are out. I also like the front pocket: for a quick trip to the store I can throw my wallet and cell phone in there and leave the purse at home. It is also manly enough for the hubby to use without embarrassment. The downside is that it is a little small for longer trips with just my son, which may mean it would be too small for baby plus toddler.
Buckeye Mommy | October 19th, 2007 at 3:55 pm
I stopped using a diaper bag before my second child was born and just shoved toddler required stuff into a big Fossil bag. But, in preperation for the new baby, I decided I needed a new bag. I wanted something that could be used as a regular bag but had baby appropriate features. So, I chose a Kate Spade diaper bag: http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2844558/0~2376779~2374605~2378506~6005585~6005586?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6005586&P=1
It also fed my designer bag addiction.
Dorene | October 19th, 2007 at 4:13 pm
Second vote for the slingtote. With my daughter, I went through about 5 different bags. The slingtote is the only one I used for my son - it’s awesome.
foodmomiac | October 19th, 2007 at 4:30 pm
I actually have three different Land’s End diaper bags. I’ve used the Little Tripper nearly every day since M was born — it’s not too big, but it can fit just about everything we need. And now that I no longer carry the changing pad, the outside back pocket is perfect for keeping a stash of books to bribe M into silence. I do find, however, that it’s tall and narrow stance means that stuff tends to collect in the bottom of the bag. I have to clean it our regularly, lest I accidentally reach down in there are pull out a bag of petrified crackers that have been in there since right after M started eating solids.
We got the “big” Land’s End bag for days when we were planning on being out all day or would be traveling. It’s ok, I guess. I find it way too large for everyday use. It made a great carry-on bag when we were flying, until I found myself trying to tote it while sprinting through the airport to catch a connecting flight. That ended badly — it’s simply not easy enough to carry. If I had it to do over again, I would not have bought this bag. It’s now being used as a pool/gym bag, where its wide mouth is quite handy.
Faced with another airplane trip, I bought the LE backpack. It’s absolutely perfect for travel — it’s separated into four compartments, so there’s a minimum of scrabbling around looking for things. For a plane ride, you can keep diaper supplies/extra clothes in one pocket, toys in another, snacks in another, and your personal items in the smallest. It’s very easy to get to exactly what you need without disturbing anything else. The straps are well-padded and the whole thing is easy to carry. It’s still too big for day-to-day use, but I can see using for years as my go-to carry on.
Paranoid | October 19th, 2007 at 6:34 pm
I think we’re just going to get a Land’s End backpack. Loved it for my daughter. I didn’t have trouble with losing things in it, and their new one (ours is 8 years old) has lots of little pockets in addition to the big one. I’m all about hands-free and I have narrow shoulders and do not like messenger bags for any time I’ll be out more than 30 minutes.
Brooke | October 19th, 2007 at 6:52 pm
When my son was a baby, 16 years ago (ACK!), there were very few cute options for diaper bags like you show above. Mostly ginormous plastic bags with ducks on them. We did have an Eagle Creek diaper bag backpack that had a zip-down, fold out changing pad that was awesome. The best thing about it was my husband never felt like a dork carrying it and when wrangling a child, the backpack option was superb.
Patty | October 19th, 2007 at 7:28 pm
I first had a “Fisher Price” bag that we bought because I liked the color, but it fell apart after about a year. Then we got the big Land’s End diaper bag and I LOVED IT! I am an over packer and generally carried that thing everywhere. My daughter is nearly three now, but because of her peanut allergy, we still have to care epi-pens, back-up food (often), benadryl, and sanitizing equipment everywhere. So,despite a lack of need to carry diapers, we still use the “Little Tripper” from Land’s End whenever we go anywhere with her.
Kelsey | October 19th, 2007 at 7:39 pm
Sorry to double comment. As a not very fashion minded person who hates to buy anything (even shoes) for more than $30, I want to add that the Land’s End bags hold up really well and are super cheap, relatively speaking. Our big diaper bag from them was less than $40, even with shipping and tax.
Kelsey | October 19th, 2007 at 7:46 pm
I’m so cheap. I just use a small backpack - hubby is not embarrassed to be seen carrying it, lots of pockets.
Deanna | October 20th, 2007 at 11:59 am
I lusted after the simple SkipHop bags, but didn’t want to pay $60 for a diaper bag (would rather buy shoes, actually). Then I spotted the SkipHop bag at Target for about $30 (either 25 or 35 - can’t exactly remember). It’s the best thing EVER. It has a shallow middle zip pocket where I can stash my wallet, cellphone and BB, so I’m not searching at the bottom of a black hole while my daughter tries to squirm out of my arms. Also has side pockets so I’m not constantly losing my keys. Can’t say enough good stuff about it - tempted to use it even when I’m going to work.
DD | October 21st, 2007 at 5:19 am
I used a Diaper Dude bag for a few months, and it was Dad friendly so I guess it was OK. I dod have a problem with how structured and stiff it was, it had no give at all and I like a bag more floppy.
Now I use a plain old leSportSac Delux Everyday bag, one side is for me the other for Rito and his stuff. It is the perfect diaper bag for me, and it can be tossed in the wash no problem!
http://www.lesportsac.com/store/7507_5205.html
Did I mention it is cheap (and you can pick them up at Winners/TJ Maxx for like 30$ sometimes?)
Sleepynita | October 21st, 2007 at 7:05 am
So, I’m on this eternal quest for the perfect “going places with baby/toddler” bag. I don’t need it to be specifically designed as a diaper bag, but it needs to have: (1) an easily-accessed front pocket for cell phone, wallet, and keys; (2) slots for water bottles on the outside; (3) a main compartment with enough room for a ziplock-bag kit of diaper changing supplies, another ziploc of snacks, a change of clothes, a couple of small toys/distractions, and (4) a way of safely stashing my digital SLR camera. It’s that last thing I can’t seem to figure out.
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MAGGIE | October 22nd, 2007 at 4:42 am
Those are really cute bags, but almost all are way more than I’m willing to spend …
Snce I don’t care about fashionable bags, I let my hubby pick out the travel one, so we at least get one he’s willing to carry. We love the Baby Bandolier! It looks small, but has so many pockets, plus changing pad & a cell phone pocket. And it’s relatively cheap - around $30. http://www.duds4dads.com/start.htm
Amy M | October 22nd, 2007 at 6:02 pm
I am a diaper bag FIEND and am constantly on the look out for the perfect diaper bag (pre-Beans this was called the perfect purse hunt). Anyway, I think I have found the chosen land! It is the perfect size, has all the right pouches/slots/compartments, has an insulated section, will hang on the handlebar of the stroller, and was a MERE $20!! Here’s the scoop, I bought it at Babies R Us and it’s made by Catini!
http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2308461#prod_prodinfo
Squeeky | October 26th, 2007 at 8:43 pm
This time around I got a Fleurville sling tote in boring blue and I just love it. There is plenty of room and it isn’t so big that later on I won’t want to carry. I threw the stupid bottle insulator out though since I have a separate bag to carry breast milk bags.
wilddreemer | October 28th, 2007 at 3:14 pm
car equipment used wash…
Unfortunately, they will also have very little body….
car equipment used wash | October 29th, 2007 at 6:20 am
We have a backpack-style Short Haul Sherpa from Baby Sherpa and we love it: many different compartments, some of them insulated, stretchy pockets for a bunch of stuff like bottles and facecloths, and a clip that you can throw an extra jacket into if you have to. We also love that we can have our hands free and my husband can carry it without looking like he’s carrying a purse.
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