

Milk and Cookies
with Linda and Kristen
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(Winner in the Worst Mother’s Day Gift contest: Jana, who was commenter #9. Yay, Jana!)
This is the fourth in a series of periodic posts in which I test out easy, inexpensive, low-mess, low-parental-involvement activities for young children to do. In the first, I tested, um, dry pasta in cake pans. In the second: painting with water. The third: marshmallows and toothpicks. Today’s test: unspilly stuff in a bowl.
Intention
The preschool-aged child will satisfy her seemingly endless Stirring Impulses, without wasting food or getting any more flour behind the cupboards.
Supplies needed
- one large unbreakable mixing bowl
- one big stirring spoon
- a dry, multicolored, non-powdery, non-perishable substance: I used jellybeans the first time because I had a bunch I got on post-Easter clearance; later, I used mixed chocolate and butterscotch chips
Pre-activity time
Less than one minute: I took the bowl and dumped stuff into it.
Time activity lasted before someone was whining again
I lost track: she went back to it many, many times per day for many days.
Parental assistance required
Between uses, I moved the bowl to a more out-of-the-way location, and once Ant Season began I started putting the stuff into a plastic container instead of just leaving it out.
Mess
Very low
Noise
Medium. Jellybeans in a plastic bowl are clattery, and can be a little annoying over the long term.
Clean-up time
One minute: I dumped the stuff in a plastic container for later, and I rinsed the bowl and spoon. Another day, I used the chocolate/butterscotch chip mixture in cookies (2 cups = one 12-ounce bag).
Unexpected complications
The other adult in the household ate all the jellybeans, so I tried chocolate and butterscotch chips, which then I kept picking at. And on one occasion, I had to remove a fistful of jellybeans from a toddler’s mouth: there had been a spill unnoticed by me and by the preschooler, but immediately noticed by the toddler.
Next time
I’ll see if I can find a less-delicious substance for her to stir.





Hmm, I always used oatmeal but it’s still a bit powdery.
St | May 6th, 2009 at 12:20 pm
I’ve seen this done with dried beans, rice and pasta. No temptations there. (Except for babies who put everything in their mouths.)
Nowheymama | May 6th, 2009 at 12:45 pm
Oh great idea! My husband loves Muesli, that would be a great thing for a toddler to mix…Oats, dried fruits, and nuts. It’s so cheap to make yet SO expensive to buy prepackaged. Win-Win!
Ashley | May 6th, 2009 at 3:39 pm
I can’t believe I won the contest - thanks so much! I am most definitely going to buy something for myself since like most mothers, I rarely get the chance to do so. Thanks!
Jana | May 6th, 2009 at 6:08 pm
That’s a really cute story!
Lindsey | May 7th, 2009 at 9:46 pm