
By Maria of Immoral Matriarch
It’s very, very easy to become sucked into blogging and for it to begin taking up way too much of your time. You begin to read, and write, and comment, and subscribe and all of a sudden it begins to feel like a job more than a hobby. The enjoyment can be drained out of it, leaving you with this perceived commitment to…the internet. Sad, eh? Yeah, being guilty of it, I know, and I’ve taken some steps to rid myself of this pesky obsession.
1. Remember why you started blogging in the first place.
Remind yourself of it constantly. Most likely, you began blogging for yourself, correct? You wanted a place to record your thoughts, and your day? Maybe you wanted a journal that was open to the rest of the world, and also talked back occasionally. You didn’t start it for popularity, or to make other people happy, or to make yourself miserable. So don’t.
2. Realize that ‘mark all as read’ is your friend.
I know, I know - sometimes it can seem so cruel to not even glance at the words of your friends but it has to be done sometimes. When your Google Reader is bursting at the seams, or when you see the number of new posts and your mood darkens instead of brightens, just click it. Mark all as Read loves you, and your sanity. You don’t owe these people anything, and since they, hopefully, have lives outside of their blogs as well, they will understand.
3. Don’t pressure yourself to comment all the time.
Yes, reciprocation and expansion of your community is nice, but if you don’t have anything to say - or you don’t have the time - that’s alright. No, trust me - it’s totally ok. As soon as you begin commenting just for the sake of commenting, you’ll find yourself looking down at the clock and wondering where your day went. That’s not a good thing. If you only have a limited amount of time everyday that you can dedicate to blogging, make sure you don’t stray out of it.
4. Set up a schedule for yourself, if you find that you can’t stop reading/writing/checking/emailing.
Limit yourself to one hour a day, or one day a week to catch up and interact with other blogs. Create a ‘workflow ‘ to streamline the way you operate online. It will help, greatly.
5. If all else fails, take a break.
Just stop all things blogging altogether: including reading others. Don’t come back until you’ve realized that your time is more valuable than that. There is more that can be done with your day than sitting in front of a computer, so each entry you write is special. Each comment that you leave is a great thing. The frequency doesn’t matter - it’s the fact that you took time out of your day to make someone else’s brighter, with your presence in the blogosphere.
How do you keep from having blog overdose?
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This is a great reminder! I have to periodically just stop and think about what I want my blogging experience to be. I want my posts to be well thought out and be something I would like to read.
I’ve gotten to where I only comment if I have something relevant to say. I love that it does build traffic, but if I don’t have anything other than “love this!” to add I won’t do it. I don’t think that adds anything to that blog. I find it hard to respond to those type of comments with anything other than a “thanks!”.
I don’t always respond to comments on my blog, but will respond via a quick email to the individual instead. I don’t get an overwhelming number of comments so it doesn’t become a large task at this point.
patsyk | November 18th, 2008 at 3:32 pm
What a timely article! There was recently a statistic put out that nearly one in four Americans - 24% - say the internet can serve as a substitute for a significant other for some period of time!
NaBloPoMo has taken over this month and last night I was feeling the strain. I am posting daily, guest posting, reading, commenting … oh yeah, and I am tweeting, plurking, facebooking. GAH! I officially have a “night job”. But, I love it. I really do. I am thrilled this month is halfway over and that the holidays are coming up. I might actually get some much needed rest!
Red Lotus Mama | November 18th, 2008 at 6:29 pm
Damn straight! Spot on as usual, Maria.
Pare | November 19th, 2008 at 11:36 am
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Perfect timing, Maria.
Angella | November 19th, 2008 at 3:41 pm
Don’t feel pressured into posting every day. Just post when you want to. Seems simple enough but there are bloggers in my daily feeds who feel compelled to write every day and I feel their blogs sometimes suffer for it. It’s ok if you really don’t have anything interesting to say on any given day. Don’t force it. Let it flow naturally. If you only post a couple of times a week, that’s fine.
Kevin Spencer | November 19th, 2008 at 5:45 pm
Hahaha, I quit using my reader because I couldn’t bring myself to “mark all as read”. Thanks for the great tips.
mamajama | November 19th, 2008 at 9:03 pm
@Kevin Spencer - Oh yes, definitely! That’s a big one. If you don’t have anything good/nice/interesting/meaninful/worthwhile/entertaining to say, don’t say anything at all.
(That’s my own little version of the Thumper from Bambi quote. *lol*)
@everyone else - Thanks for taking the time to read it, and comment!
Maria | November 20th, 2008 at 5:49 am
Love this! Thanks so much for sharing. I’ll be sharing this with my readers.
Tsh | November 20th, 2008 at 10:09 pm
I just had to take a more or less unplanned break from writing and commenting - even answering comments on my blogs. Now I’m wondering if I’ll ever catch up!
Vintage Mommy | November 22nd, 2008 at 11:49 pm
Number 1 and number 2 are the best advice. It’s easy to get sucked in to the addiction of stat monitoring and the need for comments. It’s also easy to get sucked in to thinking that if you don’t comment, the blogger will notice and be mad at you for not commenting, hence they will quit reading your blog. If they do, so what? You’re writing it for yourself, right?
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