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The breastfeeding professor: This nursing mom’s take

Categories: breastfeeding, child care

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I know this is super-old news, but as a nursing mother, and a working mother, I feel like I have to say something. Several weeks ago university professor Adrienne Pine made news for breastfeeding her infant daughter during the first day of class as American University, in Washington, D.C. A few students freaked out, as you’d expect (”Boobs! Ew!”), and the story made the front page of the Washington Post. Pine defended the incident via a blog post in which she insisted that breastfeeding her child while leading a lecture was neither an “incident” nor one that needed defense.

Naturally both Pine–who was teaching a feminist anthropology class–and the media made the issue about public breastfeeding and gender discrimination and natural, protected acts. Obviously this is why the story made headlines, but I’d argue that the problem–and yes, I do think breastfeeding a child in front of a class is a problem–shouldn’t be about how the baby was fed but that the baby was there at all. Pine said she had to bring her daughter to class because she was too sick to attend daycare. How was she, then, not too sick to bring into a college classroom?

As for the feeding issue, the thorn for me isn’t that a woman was breastfeeding in public or even in a classroom, it’s that she was breastfeeding while teaching a class, and there’s no way that wouldn’t be distracting any less so than if she were bottle feeding or spoon feeding her baby. A natural act–even a legal, protected act–does not necessarily mean it’s an appopriate-in-all-situations act. Does a professional actor bring her baby on stage during a performance? Does a judge feed her baby under her robe?

Although Pine insists it wasn’t a stunt and that she didn’t want to turn the “incident” into a “teachable moment” (just coincidence that it happened during a feminist anthropology course, then?), I wonder why she didn’t hire a babysitter for the short duration of the class. She actually did this the very next day. Since the baby is normally in daycare, I’d assume she can be bottle- or spoon-fed by someone besides her mother, and that’s where I take issue with the idea that breastfeeding while teaching class was the only–or even best–option.

I wrote about my own feelings on public breastfeeding here, and I too have experience breastfeeding my non-bottle-taking first son at the office. I did it behind a closed door on a break, though, not while leading a staff meeting or giving a public presentation.

I really don’t think the issue here is about nipples or gender discrimination or even breastfeeding but about professional conduct, which I’d say was breached by having a baby in the classroom at all, regardless of how she was fed. If a male professor brought a child to class and bottle fed him during a lecture, I’d feel the same.

What do you think? Was it appropriate for Pine to breasfeed her sick daughter during class?

Should breastfeeding be the law?

Categories: Uncategorized, breastfeeding

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Maybe I’m touchy because it’s World Breastfeeding Week, or maybe it’s because just yesterday I weaned my nineteen-month-old son (against his extremely vocal wishes), but I’ve got a beef with a Bundchen.  
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Woman fired for pumping at work

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Last week my better half sent me an email titled “Boycott Isotoner?” with a link to this article, about one company’s legal troubles following its firing of a female employee who was pumping breastmilk while on the clock. The case went all the way to Ohio’s Supreme Court, which ultimately ruled that the firing was legal because—woman or not, breastfeeding mother or not—this mother-employee had taken unauthorized breaks to pump during her shift and was therefore in violation of company policy. As a breastfeeding and working mother myself, my hackles were of course immediately raised, but then, when I read that the woman admitted to taking unapproved breaks to pump, I almost slapped my forehead and yelled “duh” at the computer screen, because this—this—is the sort of thing that gives working mothers a bad name and makes it hard for us to parent in the ways we want to, whether that involves breastfeeding while working or even going back to work after having children at all. No wonder we’re accused of seeking special treatment! But then I read on.
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Breastfeeding and Working–An Impossible Combination?

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Have you read the article on breastfeeding in this month’s Atlantic? Dramatically titled “The Case Against Breast-feeding,” it isn’t an anti-breastfeeding treatise at all but a critical examination of modern breastfeeding culture, which, according to the author, rests on decades of specious research and can, in some cases, lead to the virtual enslavement of the mothers it’s taken society even more decades to “liberate” from their gender roles. What the author, Hanna Rosin, says about breastfeeding culture–that it has become the line in the sand that divides mothers everywhere–is true, but what she says about its role in working women’s lives struck me as dangerously one-sided itself.
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Time to Fill–What Do You Do While Feeding Your Baby?

Categories: breastfeeding, maternity leave

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So, my breastfed baby still won’t take the bottle*, which means that for now at least I still spend a hearty portion of every day (and night) at the mercy of an infant’s tummy grumbles. The whole I’m-going-back-to-work-soon-and-he-must-take-a-bottle freakout aside, I can’t really complain, though; when he feeds with me, he feeds easily and well, and aside from a brief encounter with a plugged duct (yeowch), I’ve really enjoyed that special time we spend together. So, although I’m not “complaining,” per se, there is one issue I wish I could resolve, and I’m hoping you can help…
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Getting a Breastfed Baby on the Bottle

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While I was pregnant I had a lot of people ask me if I was going to breastfeed. My answer, based on years of horror stories about low supply, bad latch, pain, fatigue, clogged ducts, mastitis, and just plain incompatibility, was always: “I’m going to try.” When it happened that my son and I were both lucky to find breastfeeding as easy and natural as I wish it could be for everyone, I thought we’d dodged that particular bullet and could happily close the book on the issue, dust off our hands, and move on to worrying about other things, like, oh my god, one day I’m going to have to give him the keys to my car and let him go out driving, alone, on the roads, where he could get hurt!  It turns out, however, that my relief was premature and I have a little more handwringing to devote to breastfeeding before I proceed to installing a GPS device in my car to track my boy’s every movement. Motherhood: Let the worrying begin (and never end)!
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