Archive for November, 2009

Work It, Dad!

with Avi Spivack

Hi, I'm Avi, and I try to put the work and the dad together, with mild success. This is all about trying to give you a view from what it looks like on the dad-man's side of the world, and I hope you find my ruminations humorous because I try not to take myself too seriously.

Familial mingling

Categories: My Life

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Let the holidays begin!

Yeah, yeah, I know this is SUCH an overused topic, but it is oh so relevant, so, cmon, entertain me for a few hundred words, won’t you?

I almost wrote this same post on the eve before Thanksgiving, when it was unclear how my family (and some of their friends) and my wife’s family (and some of their friends) would somehow be able to mingle successfully for roughly 4-5 hours on the most American of Turkey Days.

I feared the worst (though I tend to be an optimist).

Not that I expected a raucous food fight or a shouting match, but you never know when BOTH families come together with a lot of wine and pumpkin-based dishes.

So…how did it go?

Shockingly smooth, a wonderful time had by all, free from (major) controversy. And that’s about all you can ask for, right?

Great piece in the NY Times about how family gatherings can tend to bring out the worst in people - the criticism, the cajoling, the inappropriate humor (we all have one of those uncles, don’t we?), so somehow, I thought my blood pressure (and especially my wife’s) would be skyrocketing…

Just goes to show you that you should always THINK POSITIVE.

And try to do as little travel around the holidays as possible.

What did you do this Turkey Day and did you mingle your families?

The sick-family circus

Categories: General

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From Mom/Kid to Me.

That’s how it went, and pretty quickly, too.

I was dumb to think that I could pound 5,000 mg of Vitamin C every day and avoid it, and now here I sit, sniffling on the couch, sucking a Cold-eeze, coughing up small insects, and counting the minutes until I will pop my two nightly Nyquil (oh greenies, how I love thee!).

At least I have Monday Night Football in HD.

So normally, this particular bout of family sickness would not have been an issue: we would juggle the mornings, afternoons, or whatever, while sick kid slowly recovered (thankfully, this was just a chest cold), and played the “work from home” card.

Of course, last week I was on a business trip, wife and kid were both sick, and then wife had crazy work stuff to do so I stayed home for 2 days, and (drumroll please) this would be the first test as to whether my new job (which is now 6 weeks old) would live up to its promise as “family-friendly.”

The verdict?

I am still employed. (thank you, thank you, I’m here all week).

In all seriousness, the billing stayed true: I emailed my team, told them I would be home, and not a peep, all good. (by the way, I should own Leap Frog stock, and whoever invented wi-fi should win a Nobel).

Uh-oh, coughing child…time for Benadryl?

How do you cope now that the Northeast’s cold/flu season is officially hitting us HARD?

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