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Hi, I am Nataly and I am the co-founder of Work It, Mom! I write the daily Work It, Mom! Blog where I talk about issues affecting working moms, goings on in our Work It, Mom! community, new site features, updates,and contests. I also share my own juggle between work and family and love to see members jump in with comments. Come and visit often!

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Going on vacation: No child, lots of guilt

Categories: Parenting & Family, Your life

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In a few hours my husband and I are doing something I almost don’t remember how to do: We’re getting on a plane and taking a vacation without our daughter. My parents were kind enough to take her to the beach with them for a week and we decided that there is no excuse in the world - “It’s too expensive!” “We have too much work!” - that should prevent us from taking full advantage of this opportunity.

I am excited, nervous, and feeling very guilty. Excited to get away, nervous about getting work done while I am away (laptop packed, locations of Internet cafes written down, as much as possible done before we go), and guilty to not be with my daughter. I know this sounds silly; it’s only a week and she is having so much fun with my parents. But I feel it anyway.

What about you? Do you ever take trips without your kids? What do you do with the guilt - leave it at home or pack it to bring with you?

P.S. The Work It, Mom! Blog will be lighter than usual for the next week. We’ve got a few great guest bloggers lined up for our Guest Blogger Tuesdays, but I promised my husband to only work for a few hours each day while we’re away. He says he’ll believe it when he sees it!

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5 comments so far...

  • Have a great vacation!

    I’m going to a wedding in new york over labor day weekend, without my kids. Just one night, but hey, I”ll take what I can get.

    Jane  |  August 20th, 2007 at 7:40 am

  • Have a wonderful time!!!
    I think it’s a sign of a great mom when she misses her kids :)
    I am a big fan of Dr. William Sears… especially when he says
    one of the best gifts a mom can give her kids is when she
    is happy herself!
    So by going to get some R&R, you’re building great memories with
    your hubby, allowing treasured bonding with grandparents,
    and coming back a super refreshed mommy!!
    Sounds like a win-win-win!
    Hmmmm…I think we all should go on vacation!!! ;)

    Talk to you soon,
    Annemarie

    Annemarie  |  August 20th, 2007 at 5:43 pm

  • Leave it at home? Is that an option? Maybe I should look into getting a guilt sitter.

    Sheryl  |  August 21st, 2007 at 4:35 am

  • A guilt sitter - now you really made ma laught, Sheryl:) I’ll have to see if I can get anyone from Craigslist for that!

    Nataly  |  August 22nd, 2007 at 11:28 am

  • [...] business trips (I know I am not alone in this). When my parents took her for two weeks last year, I felt incredibly guilty, the entire time. And as we were getting ready for her trip to the beach this year, I kept waiting [...]

    I am too exhausted to feel guilty — hoora! - Work It, Mom! Blog - Work It, Mom!  |  August 24th, 2008 at 9:47 am

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