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Hi, I am Nataly and I am the co-founder of Work It, Mom! I write the daily Work It, Mom! Blog where I talk about issues affecting working moms, goings on in our Work It, Mom! community, new site features, updates,and contests. I also share my own juggle between work and family and love to see members jump in with comments. Come and visit often!

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Do we have too much time?

Categories: Balancing Act, Career Talk, Uncategorized, Your life

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clock.jpgI’m the first person to complain about not having enough time. My to-do list is ALWAYS getting longer vs. shorter, I don’t read enough, paint enough, see friends and family enough, and oh, sleep enough. If I could just add an hour to my day it would make a difference.

Well, this is what I usually think. But I recently had a strange experience: A working day without interruptions. My husband took my daughter to school and picked her up. The babysitter (who comes after school for a few hours) met them outside and stayed outside to play with my daughter, removing even that brief usual interruption in my day when we get home from school and do the “transfer”, as I call it. I was feeling sick so I skipped my daily workout and it was snowing, so I didn’t go for my daily half-hour walk. In other words, I had a full 9 hours to work, uninterrupted.

I’ll spare you the details and get to the punch line: I got less done than on a normal day. Usually I work in spurts, which look something like this (depending on the day):

Take my daughter to school

Work for 3 hours

Go for a walk or gym

Work for 2 hours

Pick her up, play with her, do the babysitter “transfer”

Work for 2 hours

Play with my daughter, feed her dinner, clean up, put her to bed

Work for an hour

Eat dinner with my husband, clean up

Work for 2-3 hours, etc.

And perhaps it shouldn’t be surprising that when my work is broken up into shorter periods I am more productive and get more done. But what this got me thinking about is the whole idea of wishing for more time in my day. Maybe what I really should be focused on is allocating time better.

As I was thinking about this I read MaryP’s note on our weekly theme of What would you do if you had an extra hour in your day? Here’s what she wrote:

“You know what? I don’t need an extra hour, not really. It often feels like I do, but when I go through the list of possibilities, things that could be accomplished in one short hour — go for a walk, have a nap, read, de-clutter that heap o’stuff on the end cabinet in the kitchen, write that post, phone my mother — they are all things I could do any day of the week. I don’t, because I let other things get in the way, or maybe I just prioritize differently, or maybe because I fritter time away. “

I found this extremely enlightening — thank you MaryP — and it’s something I am going to work on. I am going to see if I can shift things around to be more productive and to allocate the freed up time to all the things I am definitely not getting time to do now — reading, painting, calling and seeing friends and family more, and yes, that annoying sleeping thing. If I cut down on answering emails as they come in, checking site stats, reading tech blogs (which all say the same thing); if I take frequent breaks so that my brain stays fresh; if I get more selective about things I do in general, like dusting the office, which hey, isn’t that bad to begin with, will I have more time for things I am not finding time for? Stay tuned.

I’d love to hear what you think about this: Do you need more time in your day or do you think that it’s a matter of being better organized, prioritizing differently? Do you accomplish more when you have less time to do it?

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  • I have found that the busier I am, the more I actually accomplish. (Did that make sense?)

    When I took some time off work for a couple months, I would putter around all day and suddenly it was time to start dinner.

    Now I put my kid on the bus, drive to the office, work, pick him back up, make dinner, play games, do laundry, watch my favorite trash-tv, hang with my husband, make lunches, etc. I get more done, feel great, more energy, etc.

    Sister Honey Bunch  |  January 30th, 2008 at 11:52 am

  • I’ve been thinking about this exact topic off and on for awhile now. For the most part, I do agree with you. I am not good at allocating time — I’m easily distracted some days and jump from task to task based on a email that came in or a phone call I received. And, while sometimes that must happen, it doesn’t always have to. I can wait and only check email 2-3 times a day instead of checking everytime a new email comes in. This would allow me more productive time to work on the same task without interruptions. And, on those days when I follow this rule, it really works!

    I think we do all have times in our life where an extra hour would be good (especially for things like spending more time with the kids, or just some good downtime), but as a general rule I think just re-allocating time would do the trick.

    Mel  |  January 30th, 2008 at 11:55 am

  • My experience is similar to Sister Honey Bunch’s — the busier I am, the more I seem to get done. Why? I think it’s because I can’t put things off until “later,” since “later” is already booked…

    Lylah  |  January 30th, 2008 at 12:15 pm

  • How much time do you really need?…

    More. Of course. But Nataly at Work It Mom has an interesting post about time and whether more time really makes people more productive. I truly believe that in a work environment, there is only so much a body can do in one day. I think that when peopl…

    Mommy CEO  |  January 30th, 2008 at 2:03 pm

  • me too! i am always more productive when i am too busy! part of it i think has to do with who is holding you accountable. i am much more motivated to complete a task by a given date if someone else i respect is holding me accountable (or waiting for me to complete a task). If it’s ‘just’ something for myself it ends up at the bottom of the priority list and rarely happens because some how the ‘putttering’ that Sister Honey Bunch talked about ends up sneaking in and taking over all my free time!

    but i kinda like puttering.

    i think prioritization is a huge help! but i have also found that i LOVE to organize my time and write out my task lists. however, sticking to that schedule is a whole other story…

    Kate  |  January 30th, 2008 at 2:45 pm

  • I tend to get more done when I have more to do and less time to do it, as well. I think I’m just more focused under those conditions.

    Florinda  |  January 30th, 2008 at 3:27 pm

  • Hi Nataly,

    Congratulations!! This is an amazing web-site. I recently set up my new blog and got an ad for this site on it today. Hats off to your entrepreneurship. I am not a mom yet but working, even without the kids I feel so pressed for time, wonder how I will cope when I have a kid. Thanks to people like you with good and inspiring ideas.

    Best of luck,
    Mini

    Mini  |  January 31st, 2008 at 11:05 am

  • How does the saying go — I think it’s “When you want something done, ask a busy person.” Some of my most successful students are those who can manage their time, juggling choirs or orchestras with theater and sports, and somehow still getting their homework done as well.

    Daisy  |  January 31st, 2008 at 9:15 pm

  • I agree with you, Nataly, that the more we have to do, the more we get done.It comes down to, as you say, planning and prioritising. But - hey- there is nothing wrong with enjoying a stretch of free time now and again and doing NOTHING with it, either. I remember those sick days back in grade school,when I was too sick to go to school, but not sick enough to not enjoy staying at home. My mother, who was a stay-at home mom, had no worries abut leaving me home from school, but I did have to rest and stay in bed. Ahh. All the reading I wanted to do. All the daydreaming and no one, including myself, to tell me to “get busy.” Those days disappeared all those years ago. A day of doing nothing is not really a day wasted. It’s a day spent just savouring the fact that we are alive. Working Mums rarely get that opportunity, so I hope you enjoyed it in the end. : )

    Patricia V Davis  |  February 1st, 2008 at 11:20 am

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