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Posted 14th March 2010 by B'sMommy

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I work for a company where working part time is practically considered a bad word. They just don't do it. So, basically they are behind in the fact that some women would like that option becasue they have a family. I don't know how long it had been at my compnay since someone had a baby before I did. Everyone thought I wasn't coming back, but fact was I had to. I don't have a choice. Luckily for me, my mother comes to our house 4 days a week to watch our baby. It still didn't help the fact that I longed to be with him and not at work. It took almost a year for that horrible feeling of being away from him to go away. I should mention that my job pay pretty well, is close by and was not really stressful. Thank goodness for that!

So after nine months of being back at work there was one day when I was so depressed thinking I was going to work full time for the next 30 years and how I would love part time. So I got the courage to mention it to HR. I was shocked that he said they actually had a project that needed to be done and at the beginning on the year the project would go part time (4 days a week). I couldn't belive it. New jobs just don't come up in this company. I jumped at the opportunity and in the process made some people angry that I received the job instead of senior people. So the job was to stay temporary for a few months and go permanent. Well, I got pregnant again shortly after I started this project and I asked about the HR person about what they said about the job going part time. He actually had the nerve to play dumb that he never said it would go part time. I was shocked. So basically now they are telling me nothing and the project has turned into the project to hell. After piecing it together, I found out I was offered this priject becasue others had failed at it and others didn't want it. They know I won't ask to go back to my old jiob in case there is a chance a it might go part time. So three months I asked them if they could make this job a part time one and they said "we'll take care of you" and hoepfully the only part time person who works there will retire and I can have her job. Well, it looks she's not retiring and no one has told me anything. I'm due in 6 weeks now and feel like I've been lied to just so I would take on this project, whcih I bet they are not thrilled I'm going to be out on leave before it's finished.





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  • Wow, sorry for everything that is going on. First, did you get the job when you applied to it in writing? If the job was only temporary, they may have lee-way on the actual job. Unfortunately, when you go temporary, they can pull the listing from the full time or part time positions. My advice is to start looking for something else, but in the meantime do the best you can. I know it can be sucky to do other peoples work especially if the work is really bad or if the work has lots of mistakes previously in it. Don't worry so much about your co-workers and what they think, it's not their business anyway. Do other things in the meantime, but if the time constraint is with the next materinity leave, I would say don't look for anything full time or part time until after you have the baby. Have you considered working from home? Blogging or a side business can help you with your income. Just a few thoughts here. Good luck.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Giazz on 16th March 2010

  • Sorry my spelling was so bad in this! Writing in bed and didn't have time to proof! ;)

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by B'sMommy on 14th March 2010

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