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Posted 22nd December 2007 by Victoria, tagged stress, holidays, speeding ticket

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 Today was so crazy for us... I'm functioning on very little sleep and we had to leave early to visit our family for a few days.  We packed a car with so much stuff that it felt like we were moving to another house!!!!  We were completely stressed out... The car was so full that you couldn't see anything through the rearview mirror!  The drive was ok until we got pulled over for speeding and got a nasty cop who wouldn't give us a break!  It totally sucks to get a speeding ticket around the holidays... it always sucks to get a ticket, but around the holidays it is especially annoying.... Don't cops give people a break around this festive time of year???  It felt like a scene from Chevy Chase movie... car full of crap, a screaming baby, stressed out parents.... and no break????  Anyway, as you can tell i'm still annoyed about it (and we got this ticket a few hours ago)!!!





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  • I am so sorry to hear that this happened to you. I hate to travel with Nick for long distances unless he falls asleep. I really don't like to listen to him cry for three hours. Getting a ticket on top of everything else must have been a real bummer.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Jacqueline on 1st January 2008

  • Ack, the holidays are stressful enough w/out adding travel w/ a young one and a ticket to top it off. I'm sorry!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Tiffany on 28th December 2007

  • You must have been driving through Pottersville when you got the ticket, right? (sorry; couldn't resist a holiday reference to the movie 'It's a Wonderful Life') I know when a situation like that happens to me, I know I'll feel better eventually, but man, in the moment...grrrr! I feel your pain. - Paula.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by tkd_mama on 27th December 2007

  • Oof, Victoria, sorry about the ticket. I agree that there is an indignity to a holiday ticket. It just saps the festive joy!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Kat on 26th December 2007

  • Thanks Molly for kind wishes. And Mary - that's EXACTLY what i was thinking... I thought he might actually do that... he just wasn't a nice guy!

    But I'm all better now... just have a headache but we made it there ok and now just have to brace myself for all the family things we have to do! Enjoy your holidays!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Victoria on 23rd December 2007

  • Something to be grateful for... At least the cop didn't give you a ticket for obstructive view as well. Does that make you feel better? I'm afraid it sounds like your trip was doomed to failure before you even left.

    I hope you were able to salvage some pleasure at being with family/friends for the holidays.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Mary Jane on 23rd December 2007

  • I remember having so much gear when my guy was small. It feels like you are packing to leave the country, or move to another home every time you have any kind of travelling to do...
    It gets better as they grow, which seems antithetical. Their bodies grow larger, yet there is less to shlep. No more pac-n-play, stroller, car seat.....My finest moment was when my son made it to a booster seat in the car, one that he could pick up and put into a friend's car at the age of 6, because it was so light.
    It will get better. My advice, smell your baby's tummy, kiss it a lot. It's the best age to do it. And be grateful for the fact that your baby can't say what my son said to me when he turned 2. We were in the kitchen and I couldn't find something in the pantry. His little voice piped up to tell me where the something was. "Wow,thanks, David! How did you know where that was?" and he said:" Mom, when are you going to learn that you are always wrong and I am always right?"
    To which I replied: "Listen Buster, you're not supposed to say that for at least another 12 years.....
    Precocious is cute, but it can make you wanna-----your kid.
    Have a safe trip!!!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by on 23rd December 2007

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