A cheesy parenting moment
Posted 23rd December 2007 by Nataly, tagged parenting, toddlers, kids, daughter, kids activities, music with kids
I had one of those cheesy parenting moments today and I thought I'd share.
My daughter's Russian music group had their end of year concert today. Now, concert is a big word for this - they sang 2 songs and danced around to a couple of songs. But the teacher was great and make it a big deal - they even had a New Year's tree (in Russia, we had a tree for New Years, and it wasn't a religious holiday - everyone celebrated) and Santa Clause (who is called Grandpa Frost).
When the kids went up to sing my husband went off to the site to try and get some nice photos. After about a minute, as they were singing away, I found myself mouthing the words with too much enthusiasm - when I looked over, my husband was doing the same. We were so into this silly song it was hilarious.
And then I had the moment - of feeling like a really excited and proud parent, of caring very much about this silly song, of bursting with pride because my daughter got through it great. It was 10am on a Saturday and four years ago I'd be reading the New York Times and drinking a big latte in some hip New York cafe. I used to love that.
But that was before I had a chance to watch my daughter sing a song about a hamster for a holiday party. Now I much prefer this:)








12 comments so far...
Flag as inappropriate Posted by Nataly on 4th January 2008
Glad you had a proud parent moment and I love hearing about traditions from other cultures.
Flag as inappropriate Posted by RC on 3rd January 2008
Flag as inappropriate Posted by Jacqueline on 1st January 2008
Flag as inappropriate Posted by Anna B on 29th December 2007
Flag as inappropriate Posted by tkd_mama on 27th December 2007
Flag as inappropriate Posted by Nataly on 27th December 2007
It's funny, a few years ago I was in the City for10 years and worked in fashion...and I thought I was so busy. I'd walk to work, get manicure/pedies, meet the girls for happy hour, head out to the beach on the weekends, order in wine, videos, dry cleaning and groceries. Quietly reading the times and getting to most of the sections. I was busy...busy...busy! How I soemtimes long for just one day like that.
Fast forward a few years and I share the same cheese with you and it is the best cheese I have ever had in my life! I am away from my son and daughter for just two hours and I crave them. I had my sons play and I was mouthing the words too and doing the hand movements until my son quietly yelled/mouthed while he was on stage "mommy I have to go poopies".
There are days I'd like to bring my sexy back and there are days that I just want to hear my son sing Rudolph 20 times.
Flag as inappropriate Posted by on 27th December 2007
Flag as inappropriate Posted by Kat on 26th December 2007
Shelly - thank you, it's kind of you to say!
MaryP - now you have ME teary eyed!
Flag as inappropriate Posted by Nataly on 24th December 2007
You've brought back memories of that internal flooding of pride and joy and love I've experienced (and still do), because of my children, and I'm getting all teary.
Thank you.
Flag as inappropriate Posted by MaryP on 24th December 2007
Flag as inappropriate Posted by shelly on 24th December 2007
What you described as a cheesy parenting moment is actually not cheesy at all but heart warming.
I think you made a fantastic choice you can't hug a latte.
Flag as inappropriate Posted by Mary Jane on 23rd December 2007