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A cheesy parenting moment

Posted 23rd December 2007 by Nataly, tagged parenting, toddlers, kids, daughter, kids activities, music with kids

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I had one of those cheesy parenting moments today and I thought I'd share.

My daughter's Russian music group had their end of year concert today. Now, concert is a big word for this - they sang 2 songs and danced around to a couple of songs. But the teacher was great and make it a big deal - they even had a New Year's tree (in Russia, we had a tree for New Years, and it wasn't a religious holiday - everyone celebrated) and Santa Clause (who is called Grandpa Frost).

When the kids went up to sing my husband went off to the site to try and get some nice photos. After about a minute, as they were singing away, I found myself mouthing the words with too much enthusiasm - when I looked over, my husband was doing the same. We were so into this silly song it was hilarious.

And then I had the moment - of feeling like a really excited and proud parent, of caring very much about this silly song, of bursting with pride because my daughter got through it great. It was 10am on a Saturday and four years ago I'd be reading the New York Times and drinking a big latte in some hip New York cafe. I used to love that.

But that was before I had a chance to watch my daughter sing a song about a hamster for a holiday party. Now I much prefer this:)

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12 comments so far...

  • So true about changing perspectives - I'm learning this more and more as my little one grows:)

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Nataly on 4th January 2008

  • Children change everything! Truly... And although I miss some pre-child things, I don't regret that I have this little person in my life, at all. I would never sing in public prior to having a child, but now I'll do just about anything if it amuses him or makes him smile, when we are out and about.

    Glad you had a proud parent moment and I love hearing about traditions from other cultures.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by RC on 3rd January 2008

  • It is amazing how having children changes our perspective. What we would have considered fun at one time is not what we consider fun after we have children. I am glad that you shared your moment with us.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Jacqueline on 1st January 2008

  • It's amazing how we look back and realize the things we thought were important then can't even be compared to now. I had similar moments this year with my seven-year old daughter's dance recital and Christmas concert. The feelings of pride, love, and overwhelming excitement my husband and I feel for both our children don't come close to anything I can think of.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Anna B on 29th December 2007

  • Ah. Lovely story, N! We were visiting my family in NYC for Xmas. Mom recently had to say goodbye to a friend who moved to a senior home in another state b/c the friend has a degenerative disease and has no family. Mom asked my 7 yo son if he would write her a note. The result was an arrow-thru-the-heart adorable msg, complete with "I love you a lot" (this is someone he really doesn't know, mind you) and "I really hope you feel better" and things like that. Scha-wing. We were all bowled over. :-)

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by tkd_mama on 27th December 2007

  • Kat, Momof2lovelies - completely agree. (And oh, the story about your son is precious:)

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Nataly on 27th December 2007

  • Nataly,

    It's funny, a few years ago I was in the City for10 years and worked in fashion...and I thought I was so busy. I'd walk to work, get manicure/pedies, meet the girls for happy hour, head out to the beach on the weekends, order in wine, videos, dry cleaning and groceries. Quietly reading the times and getting to most of the sections. I was busy...busy...busy! How I soemtimes long for just one day like that.
    Fast forward a few years and I share the same cheese with you and it is the best cheese I have ever had in my life! I am away from my son and daughter for just two hours and I crave them. I had my sons play and I was mouthing the words too and doing the hand movements until my son quietly yelled/mouthed while he was on stage "mommy I have to go poopies".

    There are days I'd like to bring my sexy back and there are days that I just want to hear my son sing Rudolph 20 times.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by on 27th December 2007

  • Isn't it great how we change and adapt, especially when we grow and learn to embrace new things as being important? A latte was important four years ago (and probably might still be important some mornings), but can't hold a candle to what you value now.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Kat on 26th December 2007

  • MaryJane - I love that - you can't hug a latte:)

    Shelly - thank you, it's kind of you to say!

    MaryP - now you have ME teary eyed!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Nataly on 24th December 2007

  • Your former self would see that moment as cute-but-cheesy. Your present self is too full of pride to care. Your future self will know that it is those moments that matter more than any other, and there is nothing cheesy about simplicity and love.

    You've brought back memories of that internal flooding of pride and joy and love I've experienced (and still do), because of my children, and I'm getting all teary.

    Thank you.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by MaryP on 24th December 2007

  • I think its awesome that you are teaching her about your nationality/culture. Your a great mom!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by shelly on 24th December 2007

  • Nataly,
    What you described as a cheesy parenting moment is actually not cheesy at all but heart warming.
    I think you made a fantastic choice you can't hug a latte.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Mary Jane on 23rd December 2007

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