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Thank you! He is my everything and my decision to keep him was expected. I knew once I saw him I coulnt let him go. Although living with my family is hard it does help out a lot with money. Taylor just lost his job so things right now are not so good. He is one of those people who love to work. Yes ny dad does have internet and I talk to him as much as I can. We came up with the spelling because of Taylors favorite movie.

Loren darling,

Congrats on becoming a Mommy. You are a strong woman and you have been blessed with a little angel. I can tell he is your life and he means everything to you. Living with your parents is not a bad thing, it's enabling you to look to your future while having your "immediate" family enjoy their new arrival. Your family did not give birth to that little miracle and if they aren't "okay" with it then that's their loss. Loren, as a mother I want you to know that I'm happy that you made the decision to take responsibility for your actions and keep your son. A baby is God's way of letting us know that the world should go on. Triston is a cute-a$$ name! My friend spells her son's name Tristan and I think it is so cute! I grew up without a Dad and you need to be grateful that you have one and that you have a father for your baby. Can your Dad access the internet overseas? Send him videos, pictures, and all the love he can handle while he's away. That way he feels like he's a part of Triston's life and feels like he hasn't missed anything. I feel sad and overwhelmed sometimes too... I'm trying to juggle a 9 month old little girl, rent, 5 different utility bills, an overworked boyfriend and my own sanity and sometimes it's hard. Living on your own is stressful and I wish that I had some extra help sometimes but I'm the only one holding this family together. Be the strong woman that I know you are... be calm when everyone else is acting crazy. You are the controller of your own destiny and nobody can take that from you. Make everyday the best day of your life. Seize the moment. Live in the now and spend every minute like you're not promised the next. God loves you and your family and keep him close to your heart. He'll show you the way. Google Section 8 or HUD housing in your area and get on the waiting list if there is one. It's government-funded housing and that might be just what you need. Thank your Mother sincerely for bringing you into this world so that you could give her a beautiful grandson. Life is short and I know I've said like 5 cliche's but I have faith and will never lose it. The bible says "Ask and you shall receive." Ask Him and let him affect your next move. Peace and Love Loren... Peace and Love ~Jesi 21/f/StL