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"Icarus, my son, keep near me and will be safe" - T.Bullfinch

Posted 17th May 2008 by anastasiav

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Because my care provider is on vacation this week, I've had to make alternate childcare arrangements.  My son spent two days with my mother, today with his other grandparents, yesterday with his father, and today with me -- a rare treat.  I had to run a few errands, so it was a lot of "in the car, out of

the car" but we did get him new yellow rubber boots for splashing and a

wind-up powered flashlight for camping trips.

And then we ended the day playing on this great playground over on the Eastern Prom where there never seem to be any children. It

has a lot of fun equipment and a superb view of the ocean. One thing

they have there is this piece of playground equipment that consists of

a series of metal platforms leading to slides and things, but the

entire thing is platformed up about five feet off the ground (Ah, I

love Google: here's a picture,

since all my photos are still in my camera). We spent over an hour

there, as E enjoyed going down the slides and running around on the

platforms. Because of the height, and because there are openings where

the kids can climb up from the ground (you can see one in the photo, at

the top of the S-shaped vertical monkey-bars kind of thing in front of

the slide).

So, of course, I'm being hyper vigilant and either

getting up on the platforms with E, or running around the edges making

sure he doesn't step off into nothingness and fall and break his neck.

And, mostly, E seems to get that the openings (including the opening at

the top of one very steep staircase) were sort of off limits and tended

to avoid them. At one particular moment, he was happily chattering to

himself as she spun the big ships wheel that overlooked the ocean, so I

took a moment to step away and put my camera back in its bag.

And of course, E decides at that moment that he's going to step off into nothingness.

He

fell five feet from the platform to the ground, at that very opening

you can see in the photo. I suspect he hit or bounced off of the

S-shaped climber, because he somehow turned in midair and instead of

landing feet first he landed on his left side. He bounced slightly when

he landed, and then was quiet and still for several seconds. Several

long seconds. I had been standing at the foot of the slide you see in

the photo when he stepped off, but couldn't get there in time to catch

him.

He started to cry before I reached him, though, and stood

up and hugged me, one soggy cracker still clutched in his right hand. I

hugged him tight and checked him over, but after less than a minute of

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  • Oh, that awful moment of silence! When my son was three, he fell down the stairs at a neighbour's house. The neighbour and I were in the kitchen having coffee, the boys were playing upstairs, and then ... boom, bang, thunk, bam, THUD... and ... silence.

    Scariest thing I've ever heard. By the time we two mothers reached the bottom of the stairs, he had commenced to wailing, the pause caused only by having the wind knocked right out of him. And, like your son, a few bumps but nothing of consequence.

    The neighbour and I both started to laugh when he started to cry -- sheerest relief.

    That baby boy is now 19, six feet tall and probably moving out in the fall. The sorts of falls he's likely to be taking now are of a different sort, but I'm not so sure they're any less nerve-wracking!

    It does get easier, though. Probably because you've seen them get bumped and bruised so many times, you've seen them through emotional and social bumps and bruises... and every time, they dust themselves off and keep going! They learn they can take a fall and keep going -- and so do you!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by MaryP on 17th May 2008

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