"Icarus, my son, keep near me and will be safe" - T.Bullfinch
Posted 17th May 2008 by anastasiav
Because my care provider is on vacation this week, I've had to make alternate childcare arrangements. My son spent two days with my mother, today with his other grandparents, yesterday with his father, and today with me -- a rare treat. I had to run a few errands, so it was a lot of "in the car, out of
the car" but we did get him new yellow rubber boots for splashing and a
wind-up powered flashlight for camping trips.
And then we ended the day playing on this great playground over on the Eastern Prom where there never seem to be any children. It
has a lot of fun equipment and a superb view of the ocean. One thing
they have there is this piece of playground equipment that consists of
a series of metal platforms leading to slides and things, but the
entire thing is platformed up about five feet off the ground (Ah, I
love Google: here's a picture,
since all my photos are still in my camera). We spent over an hour
there, as E enjoyed going down the slides and running around on the
platforms. Because of the height, and because there are openings where
the kids can climb up from the ground (you can see one in the photo, at
the top of the S-shaped vertical monkey-bars kind of thing in front of
the slide).
So, of course, I'm being hyper vigilant and either
getting up on the platforms with E, or running around the edges making
sure he doesn't step off into nothingness and fall and break his neck.
And, mostly, E seems to get that the openings (including the opening at
the top of one very steep staircase) were sort of off limits and tended
to avoid them. At one particular moment, he was happily chattering to
himself as she spun the big ships wheel that overlooked the ocean, so I
took a moment to step away and put my camera back in its bag.
And of course, E decides at that moment that he's going to step off into nothingness.
He
fell five feet from the platform to the ground, at that very opening
you can see in the photo. I suspect he hit or bounced off of the
S-shaped climber, because he somehow turned in midair and instead of
landing feet first he landed on his left side. He bounced slightly when
he landed, and then was quiet and still for several seconds. Several
long seconds. I had been standing at the foot of the slide you see in
the photo when he stepped off, but couldn't get there in time to catch
him.
He started to cry before I reached him, though, and stood
up and hugged me, one soggy cracker still clutched in his right hand. I
hugged him tight and checked him over, but after less than a minute of








1 comment so far...
Scariest thing I've ever heard. By the time we two mothers reached the bottom of the stairs, he had commenced to wailing, the pause caused only by having the wind knocked right out of him. And, like your son, a few bumps but nothing of consequence.
The neighbour and I both started to laugh when he started to cry -- sheerest relief.
That baby boy is now 19, six feet tall and probably moving out in the fall. The sorts of falls he's likely to be taking now are of a different sort, but I'm not so sure they're any less nerve-wracking!
It does get easier, though. Probably because you've seen them get bumped and bruised so many times, you've seen them through emotional and social bumps and bruises... and every time, they dust themselves off and keep going! They learn they can take a fall and keep going -- and so do you!
Flag as inappropriate Posted by MaryP on 17th May 2008