So, my daughter is in dance and one minute she loves it, the next she hates it. Yesterday we got in a yelling match before dance b/c she didn't want to eat supper or put on her leotard. She kept saying she didn't want to go to dance and I found myself saying "you're going whether you like it or not". Then of course I felt immensely guilty for forcing her to do something she doesn't want to do.
I have to keep reminding myself that she's learning about exercise and discipline and that someday she'll be a healthier person b/c of it. Is a four yr old old enough to decide she wants to quit something or do I just make her do it? I know that she needs to finish out the session but I keep changing my mind about whether or not I'm going to sign her up after that. When we're fighting about going there I want to just quit taking her but when she's all excited to show me here plie at the end of the eveing then I think maybe she'll learn to love it and someday not be a klutz like her mom.