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Posted 28th September 2007 by Kate, tagged family, hospital, doctors

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my granddad is in the hospital with a head injury that required brain surgery this past weekend.  he was riding his motorcycle and tagged the bumper of a car at about 5mph.  yup. he's 85 and rides motorcycles!  He is in better shape than i ever have been!  The only reason he didnt walk away from it?  he was taking too much of a blood thinner (had bypass surgery about 8 months ago) so the bump on his head kept bleeding inside.  Now he is in a coma and family is gathering.  We all just expect him to wake up and ask what the hell all this crap is that is strapped to him! 

so why do doctors say things like 'eh, he's 85, chances are he wont wake up, the recovery rate is only 30%' but they dont even take into account that he is physically healthier than most, regardless of age.  he takes care of a house on 8 acres of cleared land (that he mows), he golfs about 3 days a week or more (no cart), etc.  annoying.  maybe it doesnt matter medically, but it seriously frustrates the family. 

so that's where i am, have been and will be the next few days as we figure out his prognosis.  it's hard to waffle between terminal and 100% recovery.  but i am going to push him to recover!  did i mention he was a test pilot in the navy?  yeah, he has survived MUCH worse than this!!





6 comments so far...

  • Hi - I am so sorry you're going through this. It sounds like he's got amazing spirit! (And I've had to spend many hours with doctors helping with my grandparents and the stuff they say often makes me want to strangle them!)

    Wishing you and your family strength!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Nataly on 28th September 2007

  • Sending you and the family positive energy. And big hugs!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Mandy Nelson - Dandysound on 28th September 2007

  • That's terrible - really sorry to hear these news. I wish you and your family the best. Hopefully his spirit will carry him through this and he will be back like new! Love the fact that he is so active - that's just awesome! He definitely has a lot to live for!

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Victoria on 28th September 2007

  • Holy hannah! Kate! I am so sorry to read this! Lots of good, good, GOOD vibes coming your way! And Grandpa's way too!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please keep us updated as much as you can.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by KathyHowe on 28th September 2007

  • Sending good thoughts to you and your family, Kate! Your grandfather sounds like an amazing person.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Florinda Pendley Vasquez on 28th September 2007

  • I am so sorry to hear about this, that's truly sad because he obviously is living life to the fullest and has been his entire life. The best to you and your family and heres to him waking up and giving you a great big hug.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by The Tattooed Mommie on 28th September 2007

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