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Married men and the women who love them ( not the wife)

Posted 6th September 2008 by amanda

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Why do you think married men get hit on so much by women? Why as women do we cross eachother so easily? This is not the bitter part of me talking, it is the curious side. I am a married woman of over 16 years about to be divorced. My husband has cheated and the woman have known he was married from the start or they found out later and continued the affair, which then became a game to see if they could be the better woman and satisfy him more then me. Now as woman we are natural helpers. We feel we have anwsers to so much and we love to comfort others. I do believe there are woman who get involved with married men and do not mean to cause harm so they try to block out the fact he is married. They are lonley and want to help and they see a weak man who is willing to give and take. This causes so much pain to families. I wish as women we would start backing eachother up. Start respecting eachother and respect our self enough to NEVER take part in braking up a home NO MATTER how lonley we are or what the man says. Men try to prove that they still have it and can still get a woman, so they use us for that reason and we are so willing to take part in the game. What happens if woman really say I am better then that and you are married and I need a man who can be available for ME and my needs not string me along until he get's his ego fix.

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    Flag as inappropriate Posted by babylove on 5th August 2011

  • I take comfort in knowing what goes around comes around also. The woman my husband was cheating on me with came down here this weekend and met my kids. funny because he is treating her like crap, took out loans to pretend he has money for her and he is seeing other woman behind her back. He also is still super addicted to the porn so it is crazy that she thinks she won. I want to feel bad for her but I don't because even after she found out about me and the kids she still kept seeing him. so now I feel like she deserves it all.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by amanda on 12th October 2008

  • I was listening to a talk show on xm when a woman was talking about how hurt she was over the situation she was in with this married man. She said she felt powerful when she was dating him and his wife of years didn't know. She said she was doing things for him his wife wasn't. That she was winning because she was making him happy, and that he was't happy before. To make this story short, she got the man to divorce his wife, which she said was a prize and she was the winner. Now he lives with her and won't marry her and goes back to his x wife alot to spend time with her and his kids. She is sad and is now leaving him and feels like this is pay back.
    I personally feel this man was stupid and blind and the distration of this woman made him make a mistake that tore his family apart. I hope his x wife has found a new man worthy of her love and will be faithful. This was a sad story and I bet it is something that happens alot.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by amanda on 13th September 2008

  • I totally agree with you, Amanda. Married men won't be able to cheat if women stop dating men they know are married.

    I think you hit on many of the reasons. I think women are attracted to married men because they figure he's the marrying type or a family man. Of course that reasoning makes no sense, since he's cheating.

    I think they delude themselves, and as you say: Pretend he's not married. The thing is if you're dating a married man, that man is cheating on his wife. Do you think he won't cheat on you once you're the wife?

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Gina on 11th September 2008

  • There are women out there who are like that,but all we do is fixate on the women who do stay in a relationship with a married man.And if the man is going to cheat on his wife,then he'll cheat on her to.She may think oother wise,but it is always true,and I know this is a bit out of place,but I do take comfort in that,not a lot of comfort,just a small amount,but it is some comfort.

    Flag as inappropriate Posted by Regina on 7th September 2008

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