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hey, at least you're putting it out there to see in black and white just how you're feeling. If it's a mutual friends profile you can bet he's tried to see yours. But I can be as sure as I am about my ex's, he's likely having the same sort of internal battle, to some degree. It's human nature. It's ok to wonder, it how you proceed with that feeling that will dictate how you proceed with your future. Besides, who said fantisizing was a crime (good or bad). As for life, I'm still waiting on the official manual.

I found one of my ex's last year on Myspace. I added him only to find out he was leaving for Iraq two months later. It wasn't bad that I found him, but he's changed so much already since he's been over there. The only ex's I would care to know, I care about as friends. I wonder what COULD'VE been, but that's not what IS so it doesn't really matter. I'm happy where I am and I couldn't see my life being any better with either of them.

Nataly's got a point but curiosity is hard to curb. Hmm, were you looking for him? Did he find you? You don't have to answer those to me; just look at the circumstances. Just b/c you're happy and content now doesn't mean you can't say hi. I just found some old friends on myspace b/c I was curious (none were boyfriends exactly but I cared about them deeply) and am glad to see where they are and share where I am. When you share a bond with someone , whatever that point in life was, it's great to be able to be supportive in their happiness/trouble. We all grow up/move on/have changing circumstances. You'll make the right decision for you. Ha, I sound all psychology-major on you, but my point is that it's great you wrote this note and are working through it and willing to put up with comments from people you don't know!