Yesterday is done and over with
Posted 31st January 2009 by amanda
Well I haven't been on here since Oct of last year. I have had so much going on. If any of you are on here that remember me. I was suppose to move back to Arizona from Georgia in june of 2009 because my husband was having a on going affair with another well a couple of woman but serious with one woman.
Well as you can see it is Jan and I am now living in Arizona. I left Georgia on decemeber 27th. Christmas was very hard last year because I had gotten so sick of my situation that trying to stay wasn't even an option for me any longer. He was being very ruid and treating that other girl more like his wife then he was me. He started to dog our kids out and lie to them for her and thats when I decided we had to go and go now. I made it the best christmas I could for my kids. they got alot of stuff and my brother came down we packed up my furniture I packed up my car and we drove all the way from Georgia to Arizona. I drove by myself. So many people told me I couldn't do it that the drive was to long or that I wouldn't make it once I was here but I am here and I have such a peaceful life now.
I have a 2100 sq ft home not huge but just right. My rent is paid until may I have food I have fun money and we are relaxed and ok. I saved all my money when I was in georgia. while I was working and my husband wa cheating I would just take my check his check any check lol and save save save so when I got here I could pre pay my rent and live stress free as possible. This was the best decision I made.
He is still with that woamn and she post pics of them on myspace together and brags about being with him but I know what goes around comes around. I know he hasn't changed a bit and she does not have a good man at all.I have shed many many tears at night and yes the lonliness seems like it is gonna kill me some days but overall I am so much happier. I wouldn't change it for the world. I just hope my kids make friends one day soon uggg.
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Glad you are doing good- you think ahead- you will be just fine. A bigger home would not have made you any happier....the move was what made you happy. ( and getting away from a bad relationship)
As strong women (the drive) people would be surprised what we can do. Everything will be fine- just hang in their. Best of luck in everything you do. And a continued great 2009.
Flag as inappropriate Posted by eileen b on 31st January 2009