Mt sons father has never been apart of my sons life. And as long as my son can remember my husband has been his dad. I have now gotten a lawyer so my husband can adopt him. which I am so happy about. The lawyer has told me that I need to try to find this absent guy. I don't know how. I know what town he lives in and that is it. I am also completly scared to talk to him. I just don't know what to say. Or if he will fight me on it now. The absent guy is supposed to pay me 750 dollars amonth and never has. so you can imagine how much he owes us. But it is not the money I am worried about. I worry that if something happens before i get this taken care of that my son will have to go to a complete stranger that will not love him or take care of him the way thant he needs to be. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to find this guy. anything will help.