I'm new to Work It, Mom and am excited to get to know everyone. Balancing work/family is definitely a challenge. My biggest challenge is trying to get my husband, 17 yr. old daughter and 12 yr. old son to pick up after themselves. My latest tactic is to withhold privileges until rooms are clean, items are cleared from the living room, etc. It works, but I get tired of always being the bad guy. My husband seems oblivious to clutter and says I need to "get over it" (he is a good Dad in most ways). I don't know about yall, but when my house is messy, it affects me on the job also. I just get overwhelmed. Sometimes I have to call in sick, get the family off to work and school and clean just so I can clear my head and function at work and home. (I call days like this, legitimate mental health "sick" days). I'm scheduled to go to two out of state conferences in September and I cringe at the thought of what my house may look like when I return. Any suggestions on how I can motivate my crew to pick up after themselves?