Thank you ladies so much!!! I knew coming here would help me. My HEART is in childcare!!!! And by doing that my OWN family benefits by having me at home. I'm home for my own kids, I'm home and can do chores during daycare nap time, I can have dinner on the table at a reasonable hour, etc etc.
I know the benefits of the county (insurance, 401k, retirement) are better than in the daycare business but my husband works for the same company that I got the job offer from so we already have full coverage health insurance through them--I can put money aside myself for retirement and stuff like that.
I'm going to decline the job offer.....man, I feel better already. Yep, my heart is in childcare--I LOVED that job!!!!!!