I am having problems with a woman in my life. She is the wife of one of my husbands friends. She stays at home with her children, and she and I occasionally talk on the phone, complain about our husbands, and go out together. She can be really fun, and most of the time I enjoy our time together. But there's another side to her. She tends to pressure me into spending time with her. She will make snide comments if I don't call her back in what she considers to be a reasonable amount of time (a couple hours). She gets angry that I don't have a cell phone and can't be reached when I'm out (these are the times that I'm really glad that I don't have one). Whenever I start to explain what's going on in my life, she'll say "yeah whatever" like I'm making up excuses to not spend time with her, and then will laugh as if she's joking...even though I know she isn't. I have told her that I work from home and take care of our daughter during the day, but she doesn't seem to get that I'm busy. In fact, whenever she asks me what I've been up to she says "what have you guys been up to? nothing?", and if I tell her what's been going on in our life her response is usually "soooo nothing really". It's really rude, and it hurts my feelings.
The latest problem was that she wrote me an e-mail in all caps chastising me for not writing her back after 30 minutes. I am so sick of it, but I feel like she's impossible to talk to. I also don't want to be the bad guy in the relationship because our husbands have been friends for YEARS, but I'm honestly tired of dealing with it. I'm wondering if anyone else has dealt with someone like this in their life? What did you do?