i guess it would depend on why he isnt supportive. is it because it would be very hard financially? it could just be that he sees it as you getting something you want and he isnt getting something he wants. the counselor should be able to help with finding the root cause of some of this. If you really want to be home, you will find a way that works best for your family!
I actually enjoy working and being at work, but a big part of that is due to the support of my husband and the awesome awesome awesome daycare that my son has attended since he was 6 months old. before he went there, i was NOT happy and did not like the day care he was in - having this one has made a huge difference. the teachers there really helped out a lot!
let us know how it goes!