I am so irritated right now. I woke up at 7:00 am. It is a decent day in NY. Sun is shining.
My dad came to visit and also help me out while DH was away on business. He has been here for over a week. Great father but still can drive me nutso. He's a man...you still have to tell him what to do every step of the way.
I married my father.
My DH good guy but need to tell him - o.k. now we can get them dressed, this is where we'll go today etc.. It's exhausting at times.
So today I say let's go to the Museum of Natural History, take the train, it will be fun. Husband takes a shower around 8:30 around 9:30 I go upstairs and say "hey what ya doin?" He jumps out of the bed and says" Just resting and getting dressed. I huff under my breath "of course you are".
We exchange frustrations.
DH never understands that I unfortunately don't just do what "I" want and go by "my schedule" because there are kids involved and I try to avoid meltdowns from lack of nap time, food meltdowns etc., I like a schedule. I thought well if we get DD on the train she'll fall asleep in the stroller while on the train, get to the museum by 11:00 and by 1:00 we can step out for a little lunch etc.. and everyone is happy. Take a walk through Central park etc..
10:00 DH I still have to go get my perscription and drop off dry cleaning.
Dad still not dressed(well not my version of dressed) as well as son.
I go get the prescription with instructions "o.k. get them dressed here are the clothes and we will leave when I get back" DD started having a meltdown when DH was about to walk out the door that is why I went.
Come home father is talking about the book he just finished to DH. I have been listening to him talk about the book for a full week and I can't take it anymore. He loves to talk and so does DH. They love to talk about politics, history, money, stock market etc..They are two of the same people.
Long story short.
we are not going. DD had a little meltdown and she is in her crib alseep.
This is a total rambling mess...just so annoyed and needed to vent.
Thanks for listening.
