Welcome Jen,

I really enjoyed reading all that you put in your profile. I am quite a proponent of not making one-size-fits-all rules for the fam. I'm a moderator here at Work it, Mom! Please let me know if you have any questions about the site :). Here are a couple of links that I thought might help you get started around here.

http://www.workitmom.com/group_newtoworkitmom
http://www.workitmom.com/group_expectingmoms
http://www.workitmom.com/bloggers/orderingdisorder