Welcome Rachael, It's nice to meet you. I just got back from checking out your blog. Very nice! I totally agree with you that it seems that everyone is finding fault with individuality (including being girly, and a mom blogger). I'm a moderator for Work it, Mom! If any questions or comments come up, feel free to send them my way. Here are some great places to check out around here.
http://www.workitmom.com/group_blogitmom
http://www.workitmom.com/bloggers/milkandcookies