Hey anor_318. It's great to meet you. Welcome to Work it, Mom! I so enjoyed reading your profile info above! My daughter (my only child) is about the same age as yours and, oh brother, I hear you when you say it's emotionally draining. I knew it would be hard, but I didn't realize how endless it is. And when they're that age they always want mommy. So even if daddy is there to help out sometimes, we are always the ones being called upon. So anyway, I really relate to how you feel!!

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